Who live in a different state with no family member just themself and their own little family?

How is it girl and when did u decided its time to take a new chapter in ur life

@chanty09, I love it yeah no babysitters but I decided when cost of living got high

@billnyetherussianspy yeah I am not working full time because daycare is expensive and I don't get any government assistance so eveything is out of pocket and its hard 😅 so I understand ur point if view. I like flordia the only thing is that my mother in law live in florida and she annoying and clingy and doesn't know her place. She overstep too much so I am thinking if I move to Florida I can be like 4 hour away from her. So I know it won't be like a everyday thing that she would want to come around

@madrex2 wow girl I was from thr bronx to CT and now I am wondering what to do its super hard

@chanty09, yeah it’s an adjustment like in p.a i had my siblings and my bil and his gf lived with us so we had people then we all moved to ga and they live an hour from us but they moving closer to us and he has his uncle but we’re not that close but rent is way cheaper and the schools are much better

@madrex2 yeah girl I understand girl it would be very hard but I know I have to do what's better for myself and my kids as well and CT is boring and expensive and yes I am a bit closer to my mom I see her but not as much as I want too. But I will tell u this they do help me a lot when i need them.

Where you before and where now

@amouryaya09 were would you have move if you had the chance ?

@chanty09, probably Florida. That’s where my husband is from.

@amouryaya09 that's where I want to go too girl

@raisingbabes wow 👏 that's good I am really thinking about moving and start a new life but I guess my mom and siblings are pulling me off

@chanty09, if you put everyone & their feelings first, you’ll never be able to live! I was feeling the same way before we decided to move, do what’s best for YOUR little family! It was the best thing we did!

@raisingbabes no your right thank you for telling me that I needed to heat that!

@kush_queen420 I was lookimg at some nice places in Florida but i am svare about moving down there bevsuse my mother in law live in West palm Beach and I was looking at some other area in FL thats far from her but I am scare she would literally move around where I move at

@chanty09, lmao that’s why you don’t tell them we’re you live 💯

@kush_queen420 hahha I wish it was that easy girl I know i wouldn't but I know once we even in thr moving process her stupid annoying ass would want to be up on my ass and be even more nice. And that why I want to movr far away from her like 4 hours away

@chanty09 thanks girl, the thing is my grandmother, mother, aunt and oldest Uncle all lived together. When my mother got sick both my aunt and my grandmother treated her like shit. They would just make comments and always make everything about them. My sister and I decided to put up with them until my mother passed away after that we took off

@momsrmagical oh wow that horrible 😢 I am so sorry 😞 and I honestly don't blame you I wouldn't care about them anymore. That's why I only care about my mommy and siblings and 2 of my aunt but then the rest its like whatever I dont care

@chanty09 yeah, I have my sister and my daughter and that's all I need

So u move back after that to where u wae at

@chanty09, well yes and no. We moved back home to be closer to family, but we don’t rely on them unless we have to. We’re we used to live was really expensive. It’s a little bette where we are now.

@littleonemorning oh okay i understand u there

@chanty09, I’m from New York my family is all in jersey or Staten Island , it’s been REALLY HARD not having my family close to me bc i am super close to my mom and sis . So it’s been hard because my sis does not support my move and it makes it harder - BUT i do love Florida so much more then New York i wont lie . It gets hard during the holidays when i can’t be with them . In short - it’s not easy but if it’ll make ur family be able to afford certain things you couldn’t before , and give u all a better life then i would do it ... u can always visit .

@itsamemario omg that so crazy becsuse my mom live in the bronx and my sisters and brother live with my mom still. And my whole family is in the bronx and I live in Connecticut but its so expensive up here and I don't like it over here its mad borning and irs like I am afraid to move because of that. I am scare I won't be able to see them as much

@chanty09, it’s not easy , I’m not ganna lie . But at the same time i need to do what’s best for us you know ? It is a downside that they’re not here . But , the community is great , the people are great . I mean if u can make money here , your living in paradise .