Okay ladies this is what I have so far for baby boy, please tell me if I'm forgetting anything or something that you would add to make life easier!
•diaper cart for upstairs (his bedroom is downstairs)
•baby bathtub
•boppy pillow and cases
•newborn lounger
•medela pump parts (I'm exclusively pumping)
•medela bottles
•pacifiers and paci clips
•4 velcro swaddles
•plenty of newborn chlothes and newborn diapers and wipes
•mittens and hats
•crib and bassinet
•glider
•new car seat and stroller

I cant think of anything else but at the same time I feel like I'm forgetting stuff....