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Amanda B

So someone contacted me waiting me to watch her son four days a week for $150/wk. I had to tell her that even if someone…

So someone contacted me waiting me to watch her son four days a week for $150/wk. I had to tell her that even if someone worked for $10/hr it only pays for a day and a half in my opinion?


I mean maybe I’d do it for $300? But the $150 I just can’t see if being worth it to me

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reevespartyof5

Tiphanie Reeves

Good ness $300 a week! I charge $20 a day for 1 child. I watch a little girl 4 days a week and charge her $160 for 2 weeks. I would gladly accept $150 for a week especially if your not a licensed daycare.

amandamduval

Amanda B

Yes here it’s typically 12-15 an hour

themothafuckinladymarlow

Linden

You are WAY under charging. 20 bucks for an entire day??? HELL NA.

scruffy.nerf.herder

Heather

Мама сына (8 лет)

@leonardsquared, if she’s in rural Midwest, that’s about spot on. Things are cheaper here, but we also make WAY less than other areas.

themothafuckinladymarlow

Linden

I live in Oklahoma, it doesn't get more rural midwest than that, NO ONE here is gonna watch someone else's kid for 20 bucks a day.

scruffy.nerf.herder

Heather

Мама сына (8 лет)

@leonardsquared, my licensed daycare is $25 per day for school-aged children.

themothafuckinladymarlow

Linden

there's the difference, school age children, therefore they aren't being cared for ALL day by one person. That's 25 bucks a day for a few hours after school.

scruffy.nerf.herder

Heather

Мама сына (8 лет)

@leonardsquared, no, that’s the rate I pay for snow days and summer childcare. For all-day care for my school-aged child. I know that infant daycare costs more, as it certainly did for us.

themothafuckinladymarlow

Linden

how is he there all day if he's in school?

scruffy.nerf.herder

Heather

Мама сына (8 лет)

@leonardsquared, like I said in my comment if you read it- this is the rate I pay for snow days (when school is cancelled) and for summertime childcare. He is there all day on snow days and in summer, not at school.

themothafuckinladymarlow

Linden

PLEASE don't talk to me like I'm an idiot. I'm not. I can read.

mommin.it

Acacia

Мама четверых детей

Daycares only charge $150 or so a week. So depending on the circumstances it may not be worth it to her. That is a lot a week to pay. Now that’s why you have to watch multiple children for it to really be beneficial to you financially.

amandamduval

Amanda B

I want to know where daycares are $150 a week 😒 even the not so great one by me is $800 and the nice ones around $1200-1500

leahh

Leah

This exactly.

mommin.it

Acacia

Мама четверых детей

I do also stay in Savannah lol down south is cheaper

amandamduval

Amanda B

thats crazy. I’ve been to Georgia once though lol

amandamduval

Amanda B

@nothingtoseehere, expensive for you too?

mommin.it

Acacia

Мама четверых детей

dang that’s a lot though& I be complaining. I bet you I won’t anymore lol

amandamduval

Amanda B

girl I’m as south as you can get. But I live near downtown Houston

mommin.it

Acacia

Мама четверых детей

now that you mentioned what your area charges, I have to change my 1st statement lol I would say you’re being reasonable

amandamduval

Amanda B

haha my mom lives 3 hours north of me and her groceries cost more with less products available, I’m just like wahhh

amandamduval

Amanda B

@rybugg413, omg !

mommin.it

Acacia

Мама четверых детей

it’s crazy how that works lol

j.luciano

Rubiaxo

Yeah here in Philadelphia, they charge about $150 a week maybe even more

briannalynn547

Brianna Montgomery

What daycare you going too ? 🤣 6 hour day here for 5 days is no less then 275.

mandehhhx3

Mandie B

I know prices vary but I’m in Georgia too. And for newborns it’s 150 weekly but for toddlers it’s only 85 weekly. I do live in a small town though about 3 hours away from savannah

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db413

Dani B

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (29 нед.)

I pay $105 a week for 3 days a week. It all depends on the person. If you don’t think it’s worth it don’t do it. But maybe she’s also short on funds.

amandamduval

Amanda B

I’m not sure, she found me ima group that’s for a pretty wealthy neighborhood but either way people usually charge 12-15, in some cases $10/hr but that’s still $100/day.

reevespartyof5

Tiphanie Reeves

Good ness $300 a week! I charge $20 a day for 1 child. I watch a little girl 4 days a week and charge her $160 for 2 weeks. I would gladly accept $150 for a week especially if your not a licensed daycare.

themothafuckinladymarlow

Linden

@scruffy.nerf.herder, how is he there all day if he's in school?

scruffy.nerf.herder

Heather

Мама сына (8 лет)

@leonardsquared, like I said in my comment if you read it- this is the rate I pay for snow days (when school is cancelled) and for summertime childcare. He is there all day on snow days and in summer, not at school.

themothafuckinladymarlow

Linden

PLEASE don't talk to me like I'm an idiot. I'm not. I can read.

mswedes

Mish

I agree with you. Know your worth.

amandamduval

Amanda B

I was just thinking my husbands not going to let me be out of the house 4 days with the baby unless I’m bringing home at least $300 otherwise it’s not worth the stress or hassle. I didn’t even think about being pregnant yet

mswedes

Mish

I had hyperemisis with both of my kids so I was vomiting non stop. It was terrible. My morning sickness hit literally the week before I started. I had to tell my friend I was pregnant at 7 weeks because I ended up having to get fluids 2 days before starting.

amandamduval

Amanda B

I had HG last time. This time I’m still sick but feel different and I’m not sure if it’s still early or maybe I don’t have it this time!


What I do have is major dislikes for food

watz

watz

I get $350 a month for watching my nephews

raisinglittlegamers

Uhhhh

I only get slightly less for my niece's but my sister is a single mom. I'm not licensed and it's extra money 🤷🏼‍♀️. She ain't gotta worry about her kids 😂

watz

watz

yeah my sister could afford more, since she and her husband both have very good jobs. honestly if I could afford it, I wouldn't charge her at all. But the $350 covers any food they eat and gives me gas money. And she knows that her kids are well taken care of since her youngest is semi verbal autistic, he wouldn't be able to tell her if he was being mistreated somewhere.

brenduhhh

B

Depending how long the days are but I pay 150 just for a day if I want their nanny to watch them

amandamduval

Amanda B

Its an 8-5 day/ 4x week

brenduhhh

B

yeah no lol that’s to little

dope.ass.mom

Nikki

I usually charge $100 per week per child. But that's because they provided their child's food, diapers, ect. I'm not licensed & I'm a sahm so $150 imo would be good pocket money.

fairykarmamomma

FairyKarmaMomma

Мама сына (5 лет)

My son’s respite worker only gets $13 an hour for him and I actually feel bad like it’s not enough. I was going to have to pay $400 per week for one infant if I had gone back to work, even daycare/preschool was $300 a week. I’d negotiate, make sure food/snacks is taken into consideration etc before agreeing to anything

momoftwoboy

Ray

@amandamduval, damn what state you live in

amandamduval

Amanda B

Texas😊

mrsward432

Kristian

Мама троих детей

personally as someone from Texas and living in Texas I don’t think the 150 is bad but if you want go up to 200 if that makes you feel better

amandamduval

Amanda B

Before making this post I forgot how rates and prices of everything changes per state or even within the state, which also makes me mad because if I told you all the rent prices where I live you’d flip but I guess you don’t notice when you live here your whole life. My friend up north pays like $600 a month for her HOUSE rent and down here 1 bedroom apt is roughly 1100-1600 so it sort of puts it into prospective. Cost of living simply changes per state. Daycares here are also expensive.

meaniehead

...

Мама троих детей

I pay almost 1800 for a 2 bedroom , bills, and 150 for care a week.

If you’re in Cali and charging 300 a week, You better have some type of degree in childcare and physiology. Be CPR certified and at least provide a lunch.

amandamduval

Amanda B

@cuppacoffee, funny because my major was that but I didn’t finish I have a year left roughly but yeah cpr

amandamduval

Amanda B

@cuppacoffee, and yes, last job was $500/week but they are in school now

mommin.it

Acacia

Мама четверых детей

Daycares only charge $150 or so a week. So depending on the circumstances it may not be worth it to her. That is a lot a week to pay. Now that’s why you have to watch multiple children for it to really be beneficial to you financially.

j.luciano

Rubiaxo

Yeah here in Philadelphia, they charge about $150 a week maybe even more

briannalynn547

Brianna Montgomery

What daycare you going too ? 🤣 6 hour day here for 5 days is no less then 275.

mandehhhx3

Mandie B

I know prices vary but I’m in Georgia too. And for newborns it’s 150 weekly but for toddlers it’s only 85 weekly. I do live in a small town though about 3 hours away from savannah

amandamduval

Amanda B

And honestly I’d take $300 for the 4 days it would just be a little low

amandamduval

Amanda B

@oggirl.mom, she seems set at $150

The way she talks it’s her husbands choice which, men don’t usually take the time to price check. Mine trips out at the grocery store as if everything is supposed to cost 50 cents lol

amandamduval

Amanda B

@garay88, we do Montessori at home with my 14 month old

missheatherbaby

Heather

That’s unacceptable. I’m a nanny where I live and I make 100,000 a year working full-time. Granted I am college education and have all types of certifications. A babysitter in our area is making at least $20 an hour.

scruffy.nerf.herder

Heather

Мама сына (8 лет)

@oggirl.mom, it’s all good 😊

ekko

The EK 💋

@amandamduval, Our office workers bust their asses. It’s not as easy at it looks. They are the backbone of our school. $13 is far too low!

meaniehead

...

Мама троих детей

I would pay YOU 300 . Lmao

billnyetherussianspy

billnyetherussian

300 a week for a daycare center 150 a week for in home I’m home daycares are way less

caffeinated.chaos

🤐

My sitter watches my kids for $40 bucks a day 😂 the one before that was $53 a day, and the daycare before that was $65 a day. No way would I pay someone $300 a week for an at home sitter job. For ONE kid. Even private school in my area isn’t that expensive. Nope. I would take the $150. I mean you have to understand that you may not get any business having such high prices, when they could easily enroll the kid in a 5 star daycare for less than what you’re asking. I don’t know. Just my opinion!

themothafuckinladymarlow

Linden

@scruffy.nerf.herder, But that's like what a few days outta the year...MOST time he's in school all day. So really your only getting it that cheap those few days, any other time it's just afterschool care. Do you see my point? They take the loss for those COUPLE days you need them full time and still charge you the same amount for the few hours a day you USUALLY need them.

scruffy.nerf.herder

Heather

Мама сына (8 лет)

@leonardsquared, we do! Its been a blessing! It’s located at a church, and I think the church helps fund so the daycare can operate without contracts for the school age children. Infants & toddlers are on contract since they are daily year-round. But daycare for school age kids is more challenging to find because they’re not year-round, so I think the church made that part of its mission/outreach work.


My mom always helped out when she could watch him, but then she moved out of state and I was in tears trying to figure out what I would do for snow days, scheduled days off of school, and early release days. Then this daycare opened and has literally been our saving grace.


This country certainly needs a better system for childcare. It is a struggle for so many families 😢

themothafuckinladymarlow

Linden

Damn the church ran preschool program local to us wanted $150 dollar deposit and $200 a week and it was only 3 days a week!

scruffy.nerf.herder

Heather

Мама сына (8 лет)

@leonardsquared, yeah preschool was different. We paid $700 for 1/2 day preschool MWF at a Catholic school. There were several kids from my son’s daycare that attended there, so our daycare lady picked them up for the afternoon at her house. (We’ve been through five daycares, two different towns). I loved this in-home lady the best. But during those two years of preschool, we were paying for school & daycare 😬


For what it’s worth, I think paying for preschool is worth it. It prepares children so well for kindergarten 👍

chelseaz

Chels Z

I definitely think it depends on the area. I pay $15 per hour for my sitter 3 days a week. And she (along with many of the other people I contacted) charge $600 a week full time for 5 days. That’s for two kids though. The daycares around here charge $160-$200 a week per child at the cheapest of places. And to be honest, I would expect to pay an at home sitter more than a daycare. You’re hiring an individual to watch only your kids for the most part instead of a daycare that has multiple kids per adult. If you were running an actual at home daycare with multiple kids from different families,that would be a different story. Just like you said, if the going rate is $10 an hour where you live, I probably wouldn’t accept $150 for 4 days a week either.

amandamduval

Amanda B

Exactly

I worked at a daycare funded by United way so it was a sliding scale but teachers paid around $500 a week, for a very small two room daycare located inside of a high school.

Actually daycares in the area are double that. Churches are different also due to funding and help from the actual church. And yes everyone I know as a nanny is receiving around these type of pay in this area. $500 a week in my last nanny job and about $100 a day

itsfeeeneyyyyy

Feeney

I pay $240 a week for full

Time care and 2 kids. I do know that’s a great deal though.

briannalynn547

Brianna Montgomery

Know your worth. I wouldnt do that. You have to take your own expenses , gas to get there etc into consideration . A woman paid me 50 a day for 4 hours .

householdceo

Kristen

Мама троих детей

Our daycares our around 200 a week and I cant even afford that lol. I think it depends in where you are and what's provided. If it's not worth it to you that's totally up to u. When I had babysitters I'd pay $20 day but now we work shifts where we dont need a sitter. I couldn't personally afford $300 wk but like I said different states and areas very. What you charge is totally up to you. If she cant afford it oh well. They also offer free daycare and head start services but only accept so many so my daughter didn't get it last year haven't tried this year. Its for people who can't afford it I guess lol not sure how it works.

forever_outnumbered

Adrianna Nondorf

Мама четверых детей, беременна

Lmao if you think people can afford $300 a week for one kid, damn. I pay my sitter $20 a day for my 2 kids and I can hardly afford that! My paycheck is $450 every 2 weeks and I pay her almost half my check!

amandamduval

Amanda B

It’s pretty normal here. It’s a fairly wealthy area. I’m in apartment but it’s million dollar homes so it makes sense. I also clean homes for $100 each

johnsonarriel25

mickey😚

Мама троих детей

Yes my daycare charge 150 a week n they are whole business.

maddykilgore

Madeline Kilgore

A lot of places where I'm from (PA) do 30 a day per kid but I think most places make you provide the stuff for your child too, I'm not sure if that's considered cheap or not because we never ended up needing childcare.

maddykilgore

Madeline Kilgore

Another thing to consider too is places that are 30 a day probably have a few kids at a time so 150 a week for one child may sound low but say you are a center watching 5 children then it is more. But from what I've seen 150 seems to be the standard

boymama523

Bye

Wow. In San Diego I used to nanny and would charge $20/hr and made $140/day x5 days a week. Our rent for a one bedroom was $1700 though so bc cost of living is higher so is income. I tell all my unmarried without kids friends to nanny bc it’s great money!

amysbabies

Amy O.

Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года)

I would just politely respond that your rates are $xxx a day/week however they work and that you hope she finds someone that fits her budget. Maybe she just doesn’t know what the going rate is or she just can’t afford too much. We used to pay $10 an hour for a regular in-home sitter, but it was about 20-30 hrs a week. It worked well for everyone involved (they also brought their own child).

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