Sounds like she’s doing it on purpose. My daughter did the exact same thing when her brother was born and she was 3.5. Suddenly she “forgot” how to use the potty and she’d purposely hold it while on the toilet then go hide in her room and pee in her pants. She’d say she had an “accident” and want to change. It was all deliberate. It took months to finally get her back on track. She wanted to be a baby like her brother and she wanted more attention. We started doing a sticker chart for peeing in the toilet and she got “poopoo candy” for each poop. I think we even put her back in pull ups for a while because we were changing her undies 4x a day. You just have to ride it out and let her take control, she will learn eventually. By time she’s 4 it shouldn’t be an issue.

When I was potty training my daughter I would leave her in panties. We never tried pull-ups. I even let her sleep in the panties. Any time she would have an accident I would wait at least 5 minutes before I changed her. I took her to the potty every 5-10 minutes. She eventually caught on and went right off with it.

If she had an accident during the night I would change the bed and make her go to the potty while I got the bed ready again.

After about a week or so she was good to go and was fully potty trained.

It takes time. I didn’t think I was ever gonna get her potty trained before her brother came. It was so frustrating and I wanted to give up so bad.

My second kid tried that crap to the point I started spanking him because he was about to start school and he learned real quick and started going on the toilet 💯

She’s not ready. Give her a little while longer and try again

It took us 5/6 months to potty train. I thought it was supposed to be easy when they were ready. He understood what he was supposed to do but didn’t really care. He made progress slowly. I tried to focus on the small victories because it was so frustrating! He been full potty trained for 4ish months now.

I’d stop potty training for a little bit. She doesn’t seem ready and pushing her is way worse then waiting. She will likely regress if she does start going on the potty now. She’s not even 3 I’d wait for a few months. Continue talking with her about it and wait for her to let u know she’s ready. She def doesn’t sound ready to train right now. Sorry I’m sure that’s not what u wanted to hear haha. But be patient she will get there one day soon. I have boys and they say boys are harder, can’t speak on girl training, but I didn’t even start until my boys were about 3&1/2 ish maybe a little earlier so she’s still pretty young!

Im struggling too.my son is about to start so im freaking out. The first attempt was a nightmare