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Jessica-Louise
Has anyone ever had an out of body experience and has the experience made you think about what happens at the end of this life?
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lisao9313

Im a freak that wonders if i have actually died, and am living in the "dead life".
I also am like you and can very easily burst into tears thinking about death, i get so worked up worrying about when i die, the thought of it, feeling, emtional wise etc!

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karla22

I am always thinking about death and what happens afterwards etc 🙄 I just can't help it! It gets so bad sometimes because I think about my Dad dying when he was only 53 and I had all these dreams of my kids growing up with their Grandad and going for sleepovers and days out with him..
Life does go on for us because we are proof of that but I can't bear to leave my kids because I know what losing my Dad has done to me 😭 I just hope I live til I am like 70/80 lol. I would love to know what happens afterwards! I need to try and get in touch with my Dad through a medium 😂
When my Dad was put in a coma for 4 days back in 2014 and he woke up I spoke to him about what he had said and asked him what he saw. (He was literally dying on the hospital ward and I had Lexi in my arms 10 days old and he was saying I'm coming now and putting his hand up etc!) I was telling him no you're not leaving yet, you're not going anywhere, I will see you when you come back, then he was rushed off to surgery. He told me that his Mum and Dad who both died years and years ago came for him to take him to heaven. He saw them standing next to me and my Mum and holding their hand out saying Come on Dennis it's time to go now. He saw bright lights like glowing all around and he could feel himself slipping out of his body like lightweight floating slightly. When he passed away Oct 2016 the nurses told me he is going to go in the next few days but I told him he couldn't and he needed to wait for my Mum! (She was on holiday in Spain visiting my Nan and was due back in 2 days). I got my Mum to come back a day early. I stayed over with him on the Monday night then my Mum got back and stayed with him on the Tuesday night from about 11pm. I woke up at 4.20am Wednesday morning and sat up like as if I had a bad dream.. my Mum rang me at 4.25 and he's gone he took his last breath at 4:20! My Mum was meant to come back on Wednesday afternoon! I know for a fact he waited for my Mum to get to his house and for me to go home so he didn't take his last breath when I was there 😔 xx

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erincharlieconor

Aww hun 😫I went to a spiritualist church in 2016 I was having some sort of mental health problems at the time and I hadn’t slept all night and something just made me go there in the morning. I sat there and cried the whole time. The lady spoke to me and said someone was with me I felt comforted and didn’t go back since lol at the time I kept getting these messages from the angels giving me signs so I needed to follow them. Few months later I got a nice job and then two kids later I’m in a much better place mentally but still not 💯 yet but it’s all a working process.
Your story literally gave me shivers ♥️ defo believe in the spiritual world! That’s exactly what an out of body experience feels like you float out your body but you can still see and it’s just like you’re a ball of energy! And strangely feels like you are so close to death but it’s not scary at all xxx

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karla22

@erincharlieconor wow! It's mad how things work and I wish I knew what it was like on the other side. Some days more than others I wish I was there wherever it is with my Dad but obviously wouldn't want to leave people behind 😔 just a waiting game I guess but that's what I hate is the not knowing when! That sounds just like how he described. At first my Dad was so scared of dying but he knew it was happening and there was nothing he could do about it. In the end he told me he wasn't scared of dying just scared of leaving me. I went to a medium in 2015 when he was very ill and the woman said to me loads of things about my Dad that only I knew and then she said tell your Dad that his Mum and Dad are with him when he has his chemotherapy and they will be waiting for him when it's time. I told my Dad what she said and from then he believed in the afterlife but was sceptical before that xxx

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erincharlieconor

@tam96, aww that’s totally understandable and really doesn’t sound bad at all it’s just comfort isn’t it xxx

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tammyxx

It scares me too! Like so much but it's the one thing in life where all promised, I've seen my baby sister 💔 i didnt see her take her last breath tho she waited for me to get back off holiday my mum opened the door and hugged me and she went, after my mum was told she wouldn't survive the taxi journey home she didn't pass away until 4days later she waited for me to be with my mum she was with my nan and other nan at the time and I've seen my grandad take his last breath who was saying my sister was coming for him and then he went. It's the hardest thing anyone can see n go through. It never leaves you what they looked like but you just got to remember the good times and what they was like before and not then. 💔💔

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erincharlieconor

Oh hun 😢♥️I’m so sorry! Bless her waiting for you to come home and how comforting to hear your grandad say those words that she’s coming for him! You’re so strong ♥️xxx

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tammyxx

@erincharlieconor it sounds bad cos he's my grandad n i love the bones of him but when he said it it was a relief that she wasn't going to be on her own 🤗 xxx

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erincharlieconor

@tam96, I suppose that also brang me back to the out of body experience it’s made me know that we have a soul/spirit so that’s comforting to know. It’s the most weird but wonderful thing that’s happened to me !xxx

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lisao9313

My nan is so calm about it all, she's just like ah when it's my time it's my time. I don't know if that comes later on in life that you feel less scared or if she's just strange to not worry lol. I wonder and want to know but don't want to know too, what they do when they embalm you or whatever its called xx

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erincharlieconor

@lisao9313, seriously I’m so so scared of death I don’t even feel like I’m strong enough to see a loved one lifeless just thinking about it hurts my heart so bad! I’m scared of everything I really don’t think il cope with any deaths I cry when I see someone’s been stabbed on the news etc.
I’m not sure yet I hope I’ve got longer to think about opting out or staying in I seriously don’t want anyone to take my womb fuck knows what they’d do with it I don’t trust “them” and if I can atleast keep that then il be happy because that part of me carried my babies so I feel comforted by having it with me when I rest. X

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lisao9313

@erincharlieconor have you not seen anyone that has died yet? I've seen a few family members and I've worked in a care home, some carers say you get used to it.. I never did it broke my heart each time! I think it's one of them things you deal with as it comes, i guess. You don't know how your going to be/react to deaths. Have they given any dates yet for when it's starting?
I've never thought of anything like that about your womb that carried the babies.. Jezee this is horrible to think about. Eyes freak me out!! Will they burn them, take them?! Xx

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erincharlieconor

@lisao9313, no and I am petrified about it all I just have a feeling when the glue of the family goes (my Nan) my mum will die and I won’t deal with both of them going. I think about this stuff more than I should.
I’m not sure about dates I’m sure we can opt out already.
Yeah it’s a horrible thought I mean who knows what they take and what they use it for , experiments etc who knows what the future holds!
I’m pretty sure they can take them. It is morbid but I think we should talk about these things more it helps abit xx

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lisao9313

Im a freak that wonders if i have actually died, and am living in the "dead life".
I also am like you and can very easily burst into tears thinking about death, i get so worked up worrying about when i die, the thought of it, feeling, emtional wise etc!

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erincharlieconor

So do I honestly sometimes I wonder if I’m weird for being scared but surely everyone is ? I’ve thought about what happens like do our ear drums burst 🥴xx

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jo.wilcox

I sometimes think that but then I think nope bills wouldn’t chase me if I was really dead 😂

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lisao9313

@jo.wilcox lmao! Well yeah i guess thats true.

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_judgemental_apparently

No but i do always get myself worked up and upset thinking about what happens after you die. Like is there another life ect? As i dont want another life where have different children ect, its really scary x

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erincharlieconor

Death absolutely terrifies me I can’t speak about it in real life because I literally cry 🤦🏻‍♀️ but I understand what you mean I used to think that but then I think if that was the case then we wouldn’t remember anyway because I don’t remember a past life that make sense? Xx

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