No judging please but how would you react or feel if your partner was watching some girls videos a lot and she’s half naked or topless? And he’s in the bathroom doing it or watches them and then wants to sleep with you?
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Men are programmed differently to a woman we see a nice looking lad and say he's gorgoues we don't automatically think about having sex with them we're as a man sees a woman n he starts thinking with his downstairs which would drive me crazy and I'd hit the roof wether it was porn or not and I don't know how any woman would be ok with this is beyond me 😂 maybe they can say that cos there not having to experience it. He must think he's done nothing wrong cos he's not actually gone out and slept with the woman but for him to then come to you is so wrong cos ur then left wondering is he thinking am her, but honestly your beautiful and he must be blind to need to look at someone eles. Xx
@allanababbiie_0x, also, looking at your profile photo, you have absolutely nothing to be worried about!
If it was someone he didn’t know personally or wasn’t speaking to I wouldn’t care 🤷🏼♀️
@allanababbiie_0x, it’s no different than you looking at a topless photo of a celeb you fancy x
@daisymadison, oh god forbid I did that 😂 he doesn’t even like some of my lad friends for no reason whatsoever x
@allanababbiie_0x, maybe you should and then bring up these videos he watches x
I've been in your position and it's horrible. Have you spoken to him about it? Men can be thick when it comes to these types of things. If you have spoken to him and it's continued, then I'm afraid that he has no respect for you or your feelings. Hope you're ok. Here if you want to chat xx
I'd be upset. Would make me feel like i wasnt enough x
@_judgemental_apparently, I said to him how would it make you feel and he said well I don’t know how it would me feel because you don’t do it. So he won’t even try to understand why it’s hurt me. As he sees it he’s done nothing wrong and that’s it when I bring it up he just gets angry and stresses at me when I’m only trying to talk to him x
@allanababbiie_0x yep i remember that so well 😒 if he knows now it upsets you which it would alot of girls then hopefully he would stop as want to respect your feelings. X
@_judgemental_apparently, oh he thinks it wouldn’t upset anyone and just says I’m overthinking things and I said how but he won’t say. I just state the facts to him about the videos and pictures of this girl he kept looking at. He said it’s done now as he went out of his way to delete Facebook but the thing is his mates send him rude stuff everyday of porn and videos of girls and it’s just really irritating to be honest yes he can’t help when his mates send him them sort of videos but to go out of his way for three months to find this girl all the time to watch the same videos over and over again yet he says he’s not interested in her is abit strange x
If he was interacting with her then I would be pissed. If it’s just videos I wouldn’t be bothered and I’d say it’s just the same as porn.
Would you not be bothered if he was watching them videos and then coming to you for sex?
@allanababbiie_0x, if he was having to watch the videos to get aroused I would be asking if there was a problem.
@mrsbodell, yep I have done and he said no there isn’t a problem I don’t really know how to speak to him about it because to me it doesn’t make sense to be honest
Disrespected and also like it’s one rule for him and another for me.
@allanababbiie_0x, regardless of what anyone else says, it’s all about how it makes u feel. He needs to respect ur feelings even if he doesn’t agree with them.
I’d feel sick and pissed off, it’s quite disrespectful in my opinion and I would have a word with him
I would be so pissed off 😡 if it’s something like porn then I feel he should do it in his free time or as a couple maybe explore what you both like that way you can both enjoy it and may give you both the excitement in your own sex life ...
I agree with everyone else. I'd be pissed off at that and rightfully so! Will never understand how some peoples minds work 🤦♀️
I’d be pissed off by that. It’s disrespectful to you. Doing it in the bathroom while you’re in the house is gross😒
In the bathroom is a bit weird I can only imagine what he’s doing before hand. Have you spoken to him about it ?
@allanababbiie_0x, It’s all abit one sided ain’t it! Im sure it knocks your confidence and self esteem and makes you feel a way. Aslong as he’s sleeping with you and not going else where then that’s a good thing so just think of it like that maybe. It’s a lot easier if you just don’t give a fuck about the videos n stuff you’ll only end up hurting yourself over it. Stick a finger up his arse spice things up lol xx
@erincharlieconor, we already have a really good sex life that’s what’s confused me about it all. It’s just the last straw with it all to be honest over the past few months somethings always happened in regards to other girls with him it’s just like everything that’s going on is building up and up and knocking my confidence in him even more x
@allanababbiie_0x, if you’ve spoken about it and he’s not listened to you then I’m not sure what to suggest I mean it’s easy to say just leave him, I think you should sit him down again and tell him how much this is on your mind and and affecting you. Sometimes enough is enough you know what I mean xx
Id feel sick ! Some people don’t mind all of that and porn etc but can’t lie I’d feel upset and want to kill him. Clearly you feel he’s getting turned on by them and not you so you have a right to feel angry or upset.
Do any of you ladies watch 60 days in?
How do you guys feel about your SO watching porn without you/behind your back?
THAT movie?!?
What's that movie that you always stop on and watch when flipping through channels, even though you've seen it 100 times?!?!
what would you do if you found out your husband is watching porn when you are not home?
Is there a show that you like so much that you could just watch it over and over!? That show for me is the 100, absolutely love this show!!!
If he is just watching videos I would say fantasy and just like porn