How do you guys feel about your SO watching porn without you/behind your back?
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This might be tmi but I do it every once in awhile too 🤷🏼♀️ We’re all human, it’s natural for us to be curious or into it sometimes. I personally think too many females make it into a bigger deal than it is. It’s actually healthy in moderate doses. It’s not an emotional thing, it’s not cheating, he doesn’t know the women or men personally that he’s watching. Its 100% natural, just because people get into relationships doesn’t mean they should have to stop anything and everything. But that’s just my opinion. Porn has been around forever, it’s just more available nowadays because of the internet. But it’s always been a thing
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I dont care. I see no issue on. Especially if yall arent that intamite . but it most definitely shouldnt be a worry or concern and you shouldnt think of it as cheating
Its cheating. He'd be out the door in a second. I don't need a piece of shit disrespecting me in my own house. Don't like it? tough. I pay the phones, internet etc. Bye bitch
I wouldn’t care bc he’ll be using the tips on me. #ijs
But also... if he decided to watch porn rather than have sex with me, then I understand where the problem lies.
I don’t mind at all, he has his needs. My sex drive is so low right now that if he wants to watch porn go right ahead 🤷🏼♀️
His ass would be kicked to the curb. Hell to NO in my house. That's how I feel.
I wouldn’t/ don’t have a prob w my husband watching it, if he were to lie about it or it became an addiction than it would be a problem.
My husband watch porn but I always have. I encouraged him to watch it during his deployment but he’s just not into it. It’s not a secret but if he had a problem with it I would respect his opinion. I never thought that porn was that big of a deal.
Idc. It’s a video/picture. 🤷🏻♀️ I’m not always readily available and his sex drive is a lot higher than mine even when I’m not pregnant. If he didn’t masturbate every morning he would be a grumpy dick all the time and porn helps him get off quicker so. 🤷🏻♀️
Yes! It’s just a picture/video. Really it’s just a visual release or recreation of thoughts to help reach the point of climax faster 🤷🏼♀️ I think some people are just more comfortable with sex and porn and everything that involves that, and some people aren’t. Which is completely okay either way. But if my boyfriend didn’t watch porn he’d be a grumpy asshole too so 😂
@mama.kay, Yeah we’re pretty wide open about sex related things. I’m glad because it removes a ton of pressure and tenseness. I used to get touchy about him watching porn when we first started dating, but I was a teenager and didn’t really think about it much. Now I’m pretty sure I watch more porn than him. 😂😂😂
Behind your back? Like lies about it? My husband watches porn when I'm not around, but we are open about it. I watch porn when he's not around 🤷♀️ sometimes we watch porn together even. I encourage him to watch porn sometimes bc we have already had sex 4 times that week and I need a break 😂
@natalielucas99 not to be rude, but are you guys having any other issues at home? My husband always wants sex, so when he isn't in the mood, I know he's struggling with something.
@northwoodsmomma, no he’s always been this way 😔 he says he’s just not into sex, but he likes porn?? I just don’t get it
@natalielucas99 I would consider counseling for the both of you at that point then 🤷♀️
This might be tmi but I do it every once in awhile too 🤷🏼♀️ We’re all human, it’s natural for us to be curious or into it sometimes. I personally think too many females make it into a bigger deal than it is. It’s actually healthy in moderate doses. It’s not an emotional thing, it’s not cheating, he doesn’t know the women or men personally that he’s watching. Its 100% natural, just because people get into relationships doesn’t mean they should have to stop anything and everything. But that’s just my opinion. Porn has been around forever, it’s just more available nowadays because of the internet. But it’s always been a thing
It’s not natural, natural is a man and woman in real life , the rest well they are fantasies and yes fantasies may be ok but this modern world is so deluded it’s unreal, the woman should be enough just like the other way round the man should be enough, too much pleasure is no good. But that’s just my opinion.x
@erincharlieconor, it’s not the women or the man aren’t enough, but like you said it’s fantasy. Our minds are so powerful. There are things we can think of in our mind that we will never be able to recreate or do in real life. Our minds and our thoughts are such a powerful thing that I think porn honestly just gives a visual release to it. I don’t think it’s okay for a man to do something he knows hurts his wife/SO or something she has genuinely asked not to do. But porn in general I think is completely normal. Like take a teenager for example. When they start masturbating, finding their bodies and learning about themselves in that way, that’s 100% normal. Almost all kids do that at some point. It’s how we learn
My husband doesn't watch it. He doesn't feel like he should as a Christian man however he has a collection of pictures and videos of me lol
It doesn’t bother me. He’s a big boy and I’m not here to control him. I’d rather know he’s doing it than have him go out of his way to hide it. But if it got to the point of addiction, things would change.
It’s needed. Unless you want a one minute man. Because if you don’t use it you lose it. It become to sensitive and they get off to fast. When there is time for sexy time they always look at your body or touch and feel your body, men are visual creatures they don’t have an emotional bond with some rando on a porn site.
@lovelyjane wow that was really disrespectful. I used to really like and respect you.
@divinely_favored, not really. Just making a point. Because I did not change anything in my response. But as an adult I’ll agreed to disagree.
@lovelyjane The comment was very condescending and disrespectful. You don't have to agree to disagree. We've got no issues. Have a lovely day.
He doesn't watch porn and I'm really grateful. If you dont like it ask him to stop. Just bc most guys do it doesn't make it right and doesn't mean you have to put up with it.
My husband is so busy during the week that our only times to be intimate without it being a “quicky” is on the weekend. I get that sometimes I can’t be there for him. It used to bother me a lot, I made him a boudoir book of sexy pics of me with a Polaroid camera so they printed right away and they turned out amazing. It makes me feel a little better seeing that in the bathroom instead of headphones 😉 Most guys do it, try not to take it to heart.
It's def a no go for me, I'm really insecure about my body though. If he can't respect my wishes, he doesn't deserve me
He doesn't watch porn and I'm really grateful. If you dont like it ask him to stop. Just bc most guys do it doesn't make it right and doesn't mean you have to put up with it.