Is anyone else’s man totally useless? Orrr just mine? My bf doesn’t work because he doesn’t want to, so he stays home with our daughter. Anytime I’m not at work he stays in the other half of the house. I get needing an break, I was the stay at home parent for 3 years. However, if I’m home from work because I’m puking my guts out, one would think it wouldn’t kill him to help out with her. Not yell at me for not cooking anything for her, unloading the dishwasher, or having the one pair of jeans he wants to wear clean. 🙄🤬
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I have discovered that men need specific clear directions on what you want them to do. Sit down and spell it out for him and tell him what his responsibilities are. You two should divide things up so he knows what he’s responsible for. I’m constantly reminding my husband what I need him to do otherwise he’d spend all of his free time on the couch. I’m with the kids all day, my job never ends, it’s not fair if he gets to lounge around when he gets home when I’m constantly working hard. I expect his help with laundry, dishes, and helping with the kids.
Very well said! Some of these men literally need you to write it on their forehead and they still need your help lol. Staying at home with the kids is exhausting. Some days I just want to run away. My SO understands that and will take our son off my hands so I can have free time.
He must be related to my ex’s 🤣 I got rid of those losers they did the same shit didn’t want to work tried to control my money and my job and mentally and physically abused me in front of my kids fuk all that I packed my shit and left town switched numbers and never looked back idc if my names on anything he can deal with that that’s totally ridiculous put his ass on child support see how he likes that
Sit down with him. Tell him as a team he needs to help out. Or kick him out. Either way things have to change.
Sounds like he needs a swift kick in the ass.... out the door. What a douche. I would be divorced in a second if my husband acted like that. Pathetic.
Yea he’s a pos. I’m working on it, both our names are on the house though so I have to figure something out on that issue.
Yea We’ve tried that and he just had the attitude of I’m the man so I don’t have to do any of that. Whether he’s working or I’m working...shoot even when I was a stay at home parent, I worked some evenings waiting tables. All the housework is still “my job”