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Erika
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Мама сына (6 лет)

Im having such a horrible time with my neighbors, my son is being bullied and living in my house gives me so much…

Im having such a horrible time with my neighbors, my son is being bullied and living in my house gives me so much anxiety.

When I’m out, I dread coming home, I’m constantly looking at my Ring app on my phone to see what kids are playing in half of my property and who bully my son, to know what I’m coming home to. The cops has been to my house, other parents have problems with me because I tell them to keep their kids away from my house and when I approach a guardian with an issue pertaining to their child, they don’t like it. I’m literally living in a nightmare!

Also, I own my house and I’m my area homes are very hard to sell.

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coffeebean

🌸GoodVibeTribe🌸Мама троих детей

I’d be whooping ass at that point I can’t even lie. I can’t handle my kids being bullied and I REFUSE to put up with it at my own house. We dealt with these little kids trying to bully my girls and they learned QUICK this wasn’t the kids to pick on. Cause I’ll go to war. Tbh, if this was me, I’d become annoying asf so they don’t wanna be there. You said it’s your yard so I’d go out and set up a grill and play with my kids RIGHT there so I’m all up in their way. I’d be throwing a ball back and forth so we’re taking up the space. Every single time they’re playing, grab a folding Chair and sit your ass smack dab in the center of their shit. If you got a dog, take the dog out to shit and leave it there and tell them you’re outta bags till tonight so looks like they’re shit outta luck. Throw a bunch of chewed up gum there so they’re always going home with gum stuck on their shoes and I bet their parents will get sick of it and make em leave because it ain’t illegal to spit out gum so what can they do? I’m petty as fuck so I’d go at it till I won lmao.

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erika.jane

ErikaМама сына (6 лет)

@coffeebean, I just don’t have the time to do all that. I still send my kid out there, I throw my guinea pigs poop out there lol but literally half of the grass is mine, the kids just play on all of it.. I brought it up to all their parents and let their know how their kids are acting but they don’t care, I just wanna move but I can’t... I hate coming home. Like I’m going to the Eagles game today and I’m already thinking about coming home later and already having anxiety

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coffeebean

🌸GoodVibeTribe🌸Мама троих детей

@erika.jane, I totally get that. We have been there. It sucks feeling stuck! And it’s a real shame the parents don’t give a shit that they’re raising crappy kids. I would never wanna be told my children left kids out or specifically told them no they couldn’t join ESPECIALLY if they were playing RIGHT next to the child or on his yard like that.

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erika.jane

ErikaМама сына (6 лет)

@coffeebean, I’m so sorry to vent!!! But my anxiety is so bad, I went to the doctor and she put me on medication. Everyone is against me, my mom and my brother with Down syndrome live with me and all the neighbors have a problem with us. Now the last neighbor that I thought was a “friend” is also against me. Now I have to get my kid from school soon, he’s gonna want to play outside and I will let him but my anxiety is gonna be through the roof.

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kush_queen420

Your Worst Nightmare 😘Мама троих детей

I’m pretty sure when I showed them my shot gun they would run 💯

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erika.jane

ErikaМама сына (6 лет)

Haha I’m from Jersey, none of that here lol

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hawkinz411

Princess Peach

I would keep calling the police then they have absolutely zero right to come on your property maybe put a fence up or something similar

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erika.jane

ErikaМама сына (6 лет)

Yeah but then I know I’ll have more problems with the neighbors, they already don’t like me

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xmoonxkissedx

M H K SМама четверых детей

Maybe put up private property, no trespassing signs, I know here were I live, with those signs up you could take bigger action when people come on your property without permission.

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erika.jane

ErikaМама сына (6 лет)

I put a privacy fence where I’m allowed to and no trespassing signs, along with sign that says my house is under surveillance. But they still come and there’s nothing I can do about it because part of my property is attached to my townships property and that’s where the kids play.

Everyone has their own yard but they insist on playing in the same spot next to my house, then they tell my son he can’t play, so I tell the kids they can home because they are on my property and the parents know this... I literally went to the doctor and was put on anxiety medication because I can’t take all of this

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