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Melinda Westad

Anybody have to turn down their husband because you’re so exhausted from taking care of the kids all day? I had to turn…

Anybody have to turn down their husband because you’re so exhausted from taking care of the kids all day? I had to turn him down last night, but he waited til 11pm to try to initiate intimacy, which is bedtime for us and I was beat. He even said how tired he was so I figured he was going straight to sleep.

I felt bad but at the same time it’s not fair for him to expect me to just turn in on and be ready for him at 11pm. I get no time to myself, I have to deal with 2 screaming brats all day long, and I just wanna lay down and close my eyes.

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jessicalaneee

Jessica LG

I turn mine down all the time. I'm up at 5 with him everyday then I have the kids until noon while I'm working from home. Then they go to preschool at noon and I go into the office until 5 and have to do all the nighttime stuff with the kids by myself. I'm exhausted and dont feel bad at all for turning him down.

I understand, the second you get a break you just want to relax.

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mo3b

Betty

Yes happens very often n he gets upset sometimes . We both work I wake up at 345 am n I’m going to bed at around 930 -10pm .when I get home I deal with homework n getting everything ready for the next day so once I put the boys to bed I just wanna sleeepppp !

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mommy_391

Liix

Same here I try to explain him and he doesn't get it baby wakes up every hour. My toddler is bad..I clean all day it takes me longer now and cooking barely can take a shower and he gets mad at me 😑😑

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kush_queen420

Your Worst Nightmare 😘

No we just do quickies or when kids are I. School or if there there we just lock our door lol

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2sweetie

Melinda Westad

Well he works during the day so we don’t have that option and on weekends there’s no way we could lock out our daughter because she’d get crazy and kill the mood!

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kush_queen420

Your Worst Nightmare 😘

so does mine he works from home we just set up a show and a snack and disappear 😂

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christineg

Christine Gonzalez

Мама троих детей

I give my husband conditions if he tries to have sex that late when I’m already falling asleep OR he tried to wake me up for sex 😫:

1. I come first

2. He gets up with the baby for the night

Happy mama 💁🏽‍♀️

No way I’m just rollin’ over and letting it happen.

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