Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Up early still reeling from my last OB appointment. My MIDWIFE tried to force me into a cervical exam and Pap smear. 1) I just met you lady. You are not sticking your fingers inside of me. 2) they are both COMPLETELY UNNECESSARY have been known to cause miscarriages at my stage in pregnancy and offer zero benefits whatsoever. These "abnormal cells" that could show up in them are actually normal during pregnancy and can change throughout. They are invasive, UNNECESSARY and its rude to even ask me more than once during an appointment. Ugh. I wish I was rich and could afford a home birth midwife.
on the 6th October I did 2 test with 2 lines , 3rd test was clear blue digital and was positive 2-3 weeks I was waiting for a month for a midwife appointment.. so yesterday I started bleeding went today for a scan and they go to me no sac .. but can see a cyst or a sac outside the womb so therefore she did another test there and it was negative .. she said if it was positive it would have been ectopic pregnancy but because it was negative she said it's miscarriage. Has anyone else been through this as am so confused ?? As some saying maybe I wasn't pregnant at all and it gave me positive results
Would you consider this cheating? What would you do I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and asked what pictures was it so hard for him to not look at and I guess he called her and they talked. And she supposedly came clean to me and said they would just talk and vent about what stresses them. Dh said the same thing and I guess the pictures were of them from a long time ago of them and other friends hanging out. Dh started crying saying he never meant anything that everything looked like the perfect crime but that there was nothing there. I have since kept my distance and told him to give me space. At the moment I don't want to see him. I believe what they said but I'm so hurt and I don't want to be the stupid person to believe everything.
Mammy Of 3 ·
They never do! You literally need to go threw everything again with another and another etc, doctors are the same and other nursing workers, maternity ward was the worst for me , their ridiculous, If only they’d communicate! Xx
Kiri Torkoniak··
It's stupid considering they say oh don't stress we want to make things easy for you and then when they fuck up it's some how your fault like okay uch so annoyed now I'm still not over it🙈xx
Isabella·
Yep this has happened with me! I've seen 4 different midwives with this pregnancy and everytime I see someone new I have to spend 20mins explaining what's been going on etc it's so annoying!! Xx
Kiri Torkoniak··
Tell me about it I have seen my midwife now and I am meant to be getting strech and sweeps from 38 weeks due to problems I have had. This has been planned for months. Now my normal midwife is off AGAIN for my next appointment which will be my 38 week check. So I asked if the midwife stepping in would know that I am having strech and sweeps and she says it's up to that midwifes preference. I don't think it should be her 'preference' if it's been planned by my consultant then they shouldn't have a say its for a reason not just because I feel like it. So now I'm more annoyed and can't wait for this pregnancy to be over so I don't have to deal with their bullshit anymore xx
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Мама сына (1 год)
They really dont. I was sent for counselling for my anxiety and my midwife said I was classed as "universal plus" which meant someone would come and check on me more often... never saw anybody ever again
Kiri Torkoniak··
It's awful considering they are meant to look after you x
Cheryl ·
I remember I seen my midwife at my booking appointment 8 weeks. Then the next appointment it was a different midwife and she said my midwife was off sick and didn’t know when he would be back. The next appointment he was back then again after that it was this other midwife the appointment after that was cancelled because this lady was only part time and my midwife was full time and she struggled with his appointments and home visits. Then I had an appointment at 38 weeks and he was back. My 40 week appointment was a really random woman she gave me a sweep and my 41 week appointment he was back. The communication was poor between them but nobody could help being off sick just very frustrating xx
Kiri Torkoniak··
You understand more when they are sick or have annual leave because of course they are still people that need time for themselves it's more the lack of communication that annoys because when you call them they are chatting away but don't seem to pass on any information xx