So today I decided I was gonna tell my moms sisters I’m expecting Well that didn’t go as planned The…
So today I decided I was gonna tell my moms sisters I’m expecting
Well that didn’t go as planned
The reactions I got was not what I was expecting
1st aunt told me well you should get on a diet so you don’t look so big
2nd aunt hmmm another kid another c section that’s dangerous anything can happen (die)
3rd aunt damn your a rabbit your having them back to back
Not once did I get a congratulations
This is the reason why I wanted to keep it to my self
People I don’t even know are more excited and happy for me than my own damn family
Does they’re reactions hurt me ?
Yes they do
For once I wish they could be happy for me 😭
Megan·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I’m sorry your family made you feel like that. You deserve to be happy ❤️ My girls are close in age, and I love it! They will be able to grow up together. Your family will come to love this baby, just give it time. Congrats momma!
Chicana♥️··
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I really hope that happens because they didn’t seem happy at all they seemed jealous
I can’t force my cousins to get pregnant
My aunts don’t understand that
deleted-user·
Dont let it stress you out you dont want to worry the baby
Chicana♥️··
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I’ve been trying to relax and ignore but it still hurts
Your Worst Nightmare 😘·
That’s why u keep your business to yourself no reason to tell ppl anyway there jerks half the time when we told my husbands mom she was like oh with shitty looks on her face 🤣 I’m like ok bitch
Chicana♥️··
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Lmao that’s the face my mom gave me because she was confused
She thought I had the IUD but I never told her I took it off lol
Now she’s excited and making baby blankets and clothes
Leslie. C·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года)
Dont let them get to you. I got the same reaction from my s/o mom. And my kids are 10.5 months apart. She said and I quote. "You guys dont know what condoms are" Followed by well Congratulations! It didnt even bug me, later on she said you guys are done now right.. I was like we dont know yet. She has 4 kids and shes telling us to stop already. You decide how many kids you want to have, dont even tell them anything anymore.. if they cant be happy for you then they need to shut their mouth. Ps: I have both my kids via c-section, theirs risk to every thing, vaginal birth or c-section. They need to mind their damn business
Chicana♥️··
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
That’s what my mom told me
She said to just ignore them that they are jealous
We haven’t told my MIL and I have no plans on telling her she’s never around
My family is the one acting stupid
His family is excited and happy
My family acts like I’m asking them for diapers or money
I’ve had 3 c sections and to be honest I don’t want another one I just want to try a VBAC
Leslie. C·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года)
My mom told the same thing let them talk, if their not helping you raise them they need to keep their unwanted opinion to themselves. When I told my mom all she worried about was the risk of having them so close together, but I assured her my doctor said it would be okay. I've had 2 c sections, I wanted a v bac for my son but since it wasnt even a year from my previous, I knew it would be best to have another for the health of my son. I heard you cant have a v bac after a 2nd c section. But that's in my hospital! Idk if it's the same for you, what state are you in?? I'm going to try and push for a vbac if I have another baby.
Chicana♥️··
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Yes my mom told me the same exact thing
So at this point I’m just gonna stop worrying about what they say or think
Yeah it was a must you had another c sections you had them close in age
I was told you can try a VBAC if you let your body rest for 2 years
By the time I deliver it will be a little over 2 years but I still have to talk to my doctor about it
I’m in California