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Bailey Perkin
Bailey Perkin
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Does anyone else’s husband or significant other use the whisper app. The other day his phone buzzed and said that he had…

Does anyone else’s husband or significant other use the whisper app. The other day his phone buzzed and said that he had a new private message on the app. I told him about it and he said that the app wasn’t even installed on his phone. I don’t go through his phone or anything and I want to trust him but right now he’s making himself seem suspicious because his phone was turned just far enough to where I could see it and since I use it to read everything on it I know what the messages look like. He’s massaging someone on it which is weird to me because he said it wasn’t on his phone when I told him he had a private message on it a couple days ago.

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bunsinmyoven

BunsInMyOven

He’s obviously lying unless someone else uses his phone too

bunsinmyoven

BunsInMyOven

I’d ask to see his phone and the messages

sourpatchkids

Mrs.stkrdknmibalz

I had that app before. Everything is anonymous on it. Probably why the message said private. I never messaged anyone on it tho. But for him to get a message and say he doesn’t have that app sounds fishy. I would ask to see the message.

mommysaurusx7

Bailey Perkin

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I’m going to look after he goes to sleep. He doesn’t let me touch his phone and I barely get to touch his laptop.

sourpatchkids

Mrs.stkrdknmibalz

@mommysaurusx6, my SO is kinda the same way with his phone. Unless I’m bitching for him to show me it then he does. I don’t know what kind of person your husband is but I would just simply tell him you want to look at it for a peace of mind

bunsinmyoven

BunsInMyOven

@mommysaurusx6, well there’s your problem... he’s not willing to be open with you so you have to sneak on his Phone? That’s not a healthy dynamic

beetlejuice_beetlejuice_beetlejuice

What's It To You?

Flaaaaaags everywhere


" Its not installed" - clearly installed to receive messages. Messaging someone on the app when it's "not installed".

Doesn't let you even touch his phone.

Rarely get to use his laptop.


What you need to do before you decide to look or not is make a plan. If he's cheating will you stay? Will you leave?

mommysaurusx7

Bailey Perkin

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I have no idea. I’ve just got a lot of suspicions right now.

mommysaurusx7

Bailey Perkin

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@mommysaurusx6, I’m about to go on to the app myself and look at all the nearby posts on it because they tell you how far away the person who writes them is.

oppztryagainn

Oppztryagain

And what is this app?I never heard of it

oppztryagainn

Oppztryagain

I get pop ups all the time saying such n such sent u a message on fb n hot asians in your area but it comes from chrome but pops up on the top of my screen like its from the app

mommysaurusx7

Bailey Perkin

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I’ve gotten those too but it only happens when I sign up for one thing and it goes everywhere else but I opt out of them when I get them.

kush_queen420

Your Worst Nightmare 😘

Girl that’s a cheating app don’t let him lie 🤣🤣

kush_queen420

Your Worst Nightmare 😘

@mommysaurusx6, you should go pull up who he calls and texts from the phone place they also have a app you could put in a secret folder so whoever he text it goes straight to your phone

mommysaurusx7

Bailey Perkin

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I’m probably going to look at it later so that I can send screen shots to myself of everything tonight.

mommysaurusx7

Bailey Perkin

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

what app

tiff.momma.love

Tiffany Eason

Мама четверых детей

The whisper app is a app where you vent anonymously

tiff.momma.love

Tiffany Eason

Мама четверых детей

It's like a diary sortoff

lexi_jenkins

Lexi Jenkins

Мама сына-младенца, беременна (33 нед.)

I looked up whisper app on my phone and their all about dating and confessions. So I think he’s being disloyal. Definitely check it out girl. From what I read his behavior is kinda sketchy. Look into it and confront him if you find something

lexi_jenkins

Lexi Jenkins

Мама сына-младенца, беременна (33 нед.)

@garay88, I was just saying what popped up when I searched the app I don’t know the exact app but when I searched it in the App Store. I’m sure they’re not all bad. I was sharing my findings. But it makes me feel better that their not all dating apps 😊

notmeanttobeaboymom

Pat

Don’t open up a can of worms that you aren’t ready to deal with! Definitely sounds way more sketchy than what you’re willing to accept maybe right now.

jaixi

Jacinda

Мама двоих (младенец)

Wow I’ve been using the whisper app for years and yes people look for fuck buddies and whatever but that’s any social app.


Whisper is actually about being about to say how you feel without having to reveal yourself and finding people who are like minded .

My husband uses the app to hear opinions about things going on with him .

I use the app for finding out information. I apart of the business groups and other groups that I tend to have questions about in life that I can’t find answers to on my own.


So yes he could be doing bad things on there or he expresses himself on there and don’t want you to be hurt by it what he says because he would never want to tell you stuff that might hurt your feelings.

mamaxofxtwo

*****

Whisper isn’t a dating app although people can use it for that and u can actually meet people in person and stuff .. it’s an app to vent and make confessions all anonymous u can make a username so ur not anonymous tho But u do get tons of msgs

pamelawife134

pamelawife134

Could it have been an ad? Because I get notifications all the time from apps saying I missed a call (eventhough the phone hasn't rung) or have a text and its actually not real

valerie_jean

Valerie

I just downloaded it to see what it’s about. This is of the few topics that popped up. I’d definitely be concerned why he has this app.

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