Feeling really horrible & alone looking after 2 under 2 alone both are poorly due to cold and cough etc..husbands abroad for past 6 months my youngest is 4 months old so been alone ever since..he doesnt seem to understand my situation at all how i must be feeling or looking after the kids sometimes with no sleep & when i do speak to him over the phone thinking he might say some comforting words etc..he just shouts and says look after the kids, send me photos of the kids..nothing about me and if i do say im finding things abit hard and getting forgetful and busy with kids thats why i didnt send pictures or call back he just says im mad and irresponsible and that i should change myself..😔 i just feel so alone
i dont feel like speaking to anyone about this with family bcus everyone will get worried
just thought i’ll let it out on here
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Perhaps he’s missing them a lot while he’s away and thinks you are the lucky one. Doesn’t sound nice the way he’s going about it though and it is hard being a SAHM. Talk to someone don’t keep everything inside xx
I think men sometimes find hard to understand how difficult it is to be looking after babies on your own.
It’s normal for you to feel tired and overwhelmed. I know I do a lot of the time. Is there any family around you who can help you? X
You poor thing. I have 2 toddlers and 3 older kids at home and know how hard that can be. I also have a supportive partner so I'm lucky. You need to talk to someone in your family, explain how you feel and maybe they could help you with your babies. Or even explain to your husband how tough things can be. You're only human and we all struggle from time to time. Keep your chin up, you're doing great, regardless xx
That's not right he should think the world of you, your raising the kids on your own! Your doing amazing !
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