I’m feeling down can someone give me advice. So today my best friend found out I was pregnant & she hurt my feelings by saying I’m just focused on my kids and that she can’t travel & things with me. She wasn’t pushing the abo***n move but she kept saying how my daughter is only 1. But I know many moms who have kids back to back or 2 under 2 and do just fine. Of course I would NEVER go that route with any of my kids but am I tripping ? I was crying & stuff earlier but I know u got this
Well everyone does things at there own pace don’t let her tell you how to be the best mom if she is taking trips here n there she obviously don’t have herself straight and she’s not focused on kids she’s focused on attention 🙄 a real friend won’t put you down
Definitely not your real friend, She should be supportive. What does she mean by “you’re just focused on your kids”.. that’s what you’re supposed to do as a mother. It is so true, you find out who your real friends are after you have kids.
“I’m just focused on my kids...” well you should be focused on your kids. She should applaud you for that. You have your priorities in the right place. You should be focused on your kids and family. Your friends and traveling and all that should take a second seat to those beautiful kids of yours. Many people will have opinions about your pregnancy but it’s not their life nor their body and if they aren’t doing anything other than giving you
The support you need then they should be elsewhere.
Drop her as a friend. You can have as many kids as you want WHENEVER you want!
Right and to say that stops me from traveling or anything no it doesn’t. Being a parent doesn’t stop shit
She’s clearly not your friend then if she’s pushing that on you, I have three boys my two youngest boys are only 12 months apart.
Dont let any one put you down