Since day 1 I have given my SO the benefit of the doubt. His mom died 2 weeks before our son was born so I let a lot go telling myself he was mourning. We live separate and he wouldn’t ask to see his son so I wouldn’t ask him to. Anytime I asked friends with kids they would say “he’s a man, it’s different for them” and more excuses like that. He now blames me for our son crying saying my mom and I held him too much as a newborn. When we spend the night over there he sits our 4 month old in the swing and expects him to be fine for hours only taking him out for feedings and changing. I told him this is bad for his social and motor skills and that he needs to be entertained. He replied to me “then you entertain him 24/7” never would I ever want to keep our son from his father but is it reasonable now? He’s not willing to do what my 4 month old needs in order to grow..help!
I had child support to begin with I did it without telling him and when he found out he wanted to act hurt. Said he’d rather give me money than have the government take it from his check. So I basically have to ask for money anytime our son or I need something and he only gives me that amount...🙄🤦🏽♀️ like wtf
Just get child support his true colors will show I’m sure he will disappear like the rest