do you ever question if your a good mom and wife or even person? i know its probably just sleep…

do you ever question if your a good mom and wife or even person? i know its probably just sleep deprivision and hormones but i just feel like i could do so much more. And i was excited to have my baby to lose weight but idk how much i have lost and everythings swollen and jiggly and not where it used to be plus im so sore and it hurts a lot. i just feel lacking... if that makes sense....