So apparently my husband wants me to get a job making enough money for him to be a stay at home dad... he claims it's so he can go back to school but I think it's mostly so he can play video games all day. He also says I need to hurry up and get our daughter out of pullups and fully potty trained with no accidents so she can go to school next year so he won't have to worry about her when he becomes a stay at home dad since it's easy with just a newborn!!!
He took off the month of August from work to "help" me once I had the baby and he hasn't done shit but play video games and stay up late and go out with his buddy!!!
I'm scared to say this but if I have to go back and work I might as well be a single mother! 💔
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But have you talked to him? Like had a discussion? Sounds like he needs to grow up. Honestly being alone can be a lot less stressful than with a childish asshat
@bearsbeetsbattlestargalactica he cheated on me while I was pregnant this year... he's never done it before. And he even told me about everything and everyone he did too. Now he's claiming that he's working on us being together and our marriage. I'm just so sick of it all... but I don't want a divorce because I love him. That and I don't think I can be a single mom. It's hard enough just when I'm alone with both girls while he's away at work.
@kaytibug2009, so he cheated on you a few months ago and “claims” to be working on your marriage. But he’s not contributing as far as being a parent and helping you with things? And then when you try to talk to him about it he just wants to “go out” and be away? Love isn’t like this. You depend on him. You don’t love him. Love doesn’t hurt like this. If you can’t tell he’s cheating again then you need to open your eyes. I recently became a single mother. I was always the one working so it’s been an adjustment. I get overwhelmed easily. But my kids deserve to see me happier alone than depressed and sad with their father.
@bearsbeetsbattlestargalactica @littleonemorning
Our biggest problem is the fact that he is use to being spoiled and able to do what he wants when he wants... before the kids I worked and paid all the bills and we used his check for anything else. Now that we moved nothing is out here to do and he's the only one working. He works at a state prison and works 12 hour shifts sometimes 16 hours... he has a horrible spending problem so we're basically broke all the time too... then he bitches and complains that there is nothing to do and we don't have any money to do anything as well. He talks about changing things and making himself better all the time but then never does and he gets pissed off when nothing gets better. I'm so tired of all this shit but I'm scare of being alone for many reasons.
You need to talk to him. There are plenty of people who work, at parents and go to school.
It seems like you two have a lot of problems. Have you spoke to him?
You might as well be a single parent. He’s useless & a cheater. I’d rather do it on my own f that.