i just was at dollar tree and the cashiere asked me how far along i was. i told her. the lady in line in front of me asked if this was my 1st and i said no this is my 6th. She proceeded to look flabberghasted and says oh my. dont you know what causes that.
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i get that too. i am 25. this is my 6th pregnancy and 5th living child. i miscarried last december. but i had my 1st at 16. people always comment on that too.
You have such a small gap between some of your kids, was it hard for you to be pregnant again after such a short time? I heard that the body needs time to heal after the big job of making a baby...
the body is supposed to have at least 2 years but i have been told it takes 5 years for the body to fully heal from pregnancy. it hasnt really been too bad. i had a miscarriage last december. that was hard. but the only pregnancy other than that that i had issues or complications was my 3rd pregnancy and i hadnt had a baby in 3 or 4 years at that time. the only hard thing about my current pregnancy is just not having energy and the aches and pains associated with pregnancy. i have no complications thus far. blood pressure has been great the whole time and my urine has been good nonsugar or protein in it this whole time. and i have only gained 7 pounds this pregnancy. i will be having a tubal ligation though once i have this baby because im done having kids.
I can’t go anywhere anymore without getting a comment about how many kids I have 🤦🏽♀️
thats ridiculous. i dont understand why people care so much.
And my rude ass would of said Dont u know what causes people to get cussed out minding my business that's what!
it took everything in me not to be rude
I do not understand why it is shocking. A woman can have multiple children in her life time.
And when you only have one child there are a few that may say it is cruel to raise them with out siblings.
No win. Every family have their own expansion. That is all.
i agree. people just need to learn to mind their business.
I dont understand why if it's not the first why isn't it still exciting??? People ask me all the time if it's my first and I say second and they're like "oh" 🙄
right? im happy and excited for all my children.
I would have been so mad 😡 I would have said something smart like no not at all .. Ppl just say whatever they want these days .... I think it’s great congratulations
@nerdasaurasrex, it’s scary but we will both get through it .. I’ll be having him the end of October.. Good luck with everything
@chasityhope1 thank you. im due october 19th but will be having her around the 12th. i havent gotten it scheduled yet because my tubal ligation request has to be on file a month 1st before theyll schedule it. im gonna be 26 in january so i feel like im at a good age and time to stop anyways. i have a 9 yr old 7 yr old almost 3 yr old and almost 2 yr old. good luck with everything.
@nerdasaurasrex, This will be my 3rd I have a 14 year old girl and a 3 year old boy and I’m pregnant with a boy now he’s due November 2 but they are taking him at 39 weeks so it will be the end of October I haven’t been scheduled yet either but should be anytime and thank you 🙏
I can’t stannnnnnnnd when people say stuff like that. This is my third and people make faces and comments.
i hate it i get it all the time and its rude
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. ...
Overall whats everyones thoughts on this. Me personally I dont mind lgbt .but to teach it I feel like is a waste . I can teach my own children that if they ask or even wanna know
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
I am sick to death of my in laws telling me how fat Scarlett is, and asking me what I feed her! Does she look fat to you? No!
I have 3 kids and people look at me like if I have a bunch of kids😑 just because I have a 1 year old and 4 month baby and 4 year old I use a double stroller🤣 and they think I'm young to be having 3 kids 🤣🤣