Took another pregnancy test this morning... Faint line, little darker then last nights test. The…
Took another pregnancy test this morning... Faint line, little darker then last nights test. The "dad" and I are on a break. We were fighting this morning because I apparently wasn't listening to him and respecting something he had asked of me. So this morning after I had taken the test we were still fighting and I I had said "well congratulations daddy, I'll be good now"...he called me and asked me what I was talking about and I started crying and told him he knew already.... He wasn't happy... We kept fighting... Then stopped talking for a bit and he just texted me and said "I love you, we are going to figure this out".
He has two kids already with his Ex. I really want to keep this baby, but I feel like if I do he won't be happy. I already told him if he didn't want to do this is do it on my own and he told me that "you must not know me very well if you think I'd just abandon you and my unborn child. Ultimately this is your choice and what you want to do, but from the father, I don't think we are ready.".....
Am i wrong for wanting to keep the baby? Am i ruining his life?
Haley Watkins·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
It’s not the baby fault don’t let him make you feel like you can’t keep the baby
Sara Andrea Taylor·
@brookemelendy66 everything happens for a reason💕🙏
Kristin chambers·
I don’t think you are ruining his life. He knew what he was doing when he didn’t use protection
boymommax2·
Don't feel bad for wanting to keep the baby!! If he wants no parts in it then let him go girl! You can do this
Tacomomma·
You’re not wrong! If you want the baby have the baby. Sounds like he’s man enough to step up and take care of his responsibilities. He’s got 2 others so if a child was going to ruin his life it would have been ruined already! Plus, you gave him an out! He didn’t want it! Have the baby! Be happy!!
Sara Andrea Taylor·
@brookemelendy66 you were meant to have his baby for a reason 😊💕
A.·
1. If you wanna keep the baby keep the baby you don’t need a man I will be harder but it’s your child.
2. If keeping the child is ruining his life then you don’t need to be with him anyways.
3. You need to be with someone who is gonna love your child regardless if it’s the dad or not and if he’s not ready he move on.
4. How is his relationship with his other kids.? Is it good.? Does he see them a lot.? Does he provide for them.? These are things you need to think about because he’s gonna treat your child the way he treats the others. If he doesn’t do right by them chances are he’s not gonna do right by yours either
MC·
Мама троих детей
So I kinda went through this. My fiance didn't want my youngest when we first found out (he's the father to my two oldest as well). He pushed abortion hard but I knew I couldn't do it. I'd regret it the rest of my life even though I am pro choice. The fights almost ended us. I told him he could stay or go but either way I was keeping the baby. In the end he chose to stay and he completely adores the youngest now. I guess what I'm saying is make the decision for you. Make one you know you can live with the rest of your life. Maybe you'll work it out with your SO, maybe you won't but you need to be content with whatever decision you decide to make regarding this pregnancy. I wish you all the best!
Hannah R·
It’s not yours or the baby’s job to make him happy. If you know you’re going to love and take care of the baby that’s all that matters. He’s a big boy that made the decision to have unprotected sex and now he has to face the consequences 🤷🏼♀️