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What do you do when your a stay at home mom and your stuck? My fiancé pays for everything and does everything, but when…

What do you do when your a stay at home mom and your stuck? My fiancé pays for everything and does everything, but when I met him I was so independent. I had 3 jobs. He told me that if I didnt want to work I didn’t have to, but being the independent woman I am I continued to work. I knew having a baby some things I wouldn’t be able to do anymore but now I just feel like I’m loosing myself, my self worth, and my confidence. HELP!!!

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amberlelliott28

Amber Elliott

I’m in the same boat, to add on to all this we just moved to GA I know nobody. My depression is beginning to get overwhelming

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chelly22

Chelle Мама троих детей

Oh I would have been devastated if I missed all of this. We'll get through it mama 🥰 I'm here if you need to talk or anything

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chelly22

Chelle Мама троих детей

I am the same way! It definitely took getting used to and I still have my days where it's super hard, but I look at my baby and see everything she's doing and learning and all that I would have missed if I went back to work and it helps a little. But try getting out the house even if it's window shopping or walking around the park and talking to friends that makes a huge difference.

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alyssamom2019

Ariana BrownМама дочки-младенца

Yea I’ve been trying to stay active in some sort of way. And you are right, I do need to think about the times I would have missed while I was away at work. I may have been more hurt than anything.

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michaelsmommy17

melissaМама сына (1 год)

I felt and still do feel at times the same way

. I worked ft before my baby was born. My fiance told me he wanted me to stay home and I honestly wanted to as well. A lot of times I feel lost or like I don't do enough but shit! We do the most important job and we don't get payed a dime for it! We are contributing just as much and working just as hard if not harder. You got this! ❣

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alyssamom2019

Ariana BrownМама дочки-младенца

Thankyou I needed to hear that last part. Because I feel like I do waaaay to much. I need a damn salary! Bills have to get payed regardless... but what about us?

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michaelsmommy17

melissaМама сына (1 год)

@alyssamom2019 I hope it gets easier for all us stay at home moms.🙏 ❣ It's def worth it.

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