What do you do when your a stay at home mom and your stuck? My fiancé pays for everything and does everything, but when I met him I was so independent. I had 3 jobs. He told me that if I didnt want to work I didn’t have to, but being the independent woman I am I continued to work. I knew having a baby some things I wouldn’t be able to do anymore but now I just feel like I’m loosing myself, my self worth, and my confidence. HELP!!!