Question if you were to be pregnant by your ex (I found out after we broke up ..bummer I know ) would you involve them in the baby shower, mini gender reveal etc? I don’t feel like I need to be reaching out especially if he doesn’t seem interested by his actions thus far? We’ve literally only spoken 3 times since I’ve been pregnant. Or am I just being prideful, it really wouldn’t bother me if he’s a no show but is that wrong..we are cordial but I’m just curious on how to go about things ? Open Advice ...

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iitstaj

Yes I agree with them ..invite him and give him the decision whether or not he shows up ..you never know 🤷🏽‍♀️he may actually be excited and at least you can know you tried to involve him

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amao25

True thanks ladies 💕

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mimilovee
Mimi602·Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

I personally would invite him. And he he doesn’t show up then it’s his lost.

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jaixi
Jacinda ·Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (37 нед.)

You give him the choice to be there or not.

It’s his child too.

And when you do everything you’re suppose to so he can be in the child’s life, you will never have to entertain a sob story or bs because you did what you could so that he could be there.

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rememberjerika2000
jessica rivera·Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна

You should invite him n leave it up to him to show 🤷

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deleted836516828583_

Honestly it might not feel real to him because he’s not the one who is pregnant. I’d give him the chance since he is the father. But it’s your choice.

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amao25

Yeah he’s suppose to come to my next appointment for the first time. He has not seen me since May so maybe he’ll inquire more from there or the closer I get to my due date but our communication is little to none so will see. Thanks

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I didn’t involve mine. But we weren’t cordial and my family doesn’t like him. He was on drugs both of my pregnancies. His mom and I are very close though and she hosted a baby shower for me for her side of the family with my first pregnancy

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amao25

Aww that’s sweet of her.. sorry to hear must’ve been rough ..I don’t even think his family knows either smh. Looks like I’ll be keeping my mouth shut unless he inquires

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