Okay ladies I have a question and the question is if you told your significant other that someone is flirting with you…

He's playing no I wouldnt take it no way

Depends. Is he saying it playfully or seriously?

Sounds like they're being an asshole.

I would not even tell my SO about someone flirting. That just is a problem starter. And it depends, is he trying to be a funny person or just being hurtful? If hurtful then ouch, jerk move.

That sounds rude and seems like he’s tryna play u like u can’t have nobody else but him and that no one else finds u attractive but him .. I would say ask him but I don’t want him thinking u insecure sounds like he a jerk to play like that when ur telling him someone flirting with u hope he’s “joking”

Sounds very familiar my husband is the same way

They try to act like because you have kids no one else would ever want you

From what I’ve learned to understand with men is if he isn’t a complete asshole and normally says or acts like that. He may believe it but most the time it’s just his insecurities abt the situation and probly didn’t even know what to say in return or how to handle u being so honest abt it or abt another man showing interest

That was definitely disrespectful and degrading.

To me it sounds like a joke. Because he wouldn't be with you if he thought you weren't attractive enough for someone else to flirt with you. I wouldn't bring it up to him again because it comes off as insecurity. I would joke back and say "remember you said nobody wants to flirt with me? Well the guy wants my number now. You still think these men aren't falling over me huh?" And see what he says to that. It'll open the conversation to clarify if he was joking or not and you won't sound like you're hurt about it. There's nothing more attractive than a secure woman. You can be the ugliest person in the world but if you have that confidence that "I look good and I don't care what you say" it makes you very captivating.