Awesome ladies, my husband is leaving me with credit card bills starting after September. When I…
Awesome ladies, my husband is leaving me with credit card bills starting after September. When I haven't had a job in almost 2 years because I've been a SAHM. But he's using the fact that he's been telling me for months that I could have gone back to school or get a part time job. How do you save you money working a part time job when I'd have to but 50 bucks twords the sitter lol. He says I'm old enough to do this all on my own he's not helping after September with anything. NEWS FLASH.... We are still married and you pay half dick. But he does not want help using day care assistance because he does not want hand outs lol
Ss3mom·
Wait is he leaving u or just saying he’s not helping with bills? Either way that’s fucked up. I’m sorry.
Stephanie·
Please say the cards are in his name. 🤞🤞
He is an absolute treat!
BakingDaddy ·
Are the credit card bills in his name?
He's such a bullshit person. I get more and more angry for you with every post.
If he is leaving then you won't need him agreeing on day care assistance will you? But in that case, file for child support since you know this little boy will use those kids to punish you.
RoseMom·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Did he tell you to get a part time or go back to school?
Unless it’s a cheap sitter it’s kinda pointless to get a part time, that’s where all your check will go.
Andy··
Мама троих детей
Exactly
Andy·
Мама троих детей
Ok so the cards are in my name, they were before we were ever together. He has the children. I left because I pretty much was kicked out.
Mandy··
Do what you can to get the kids back. You don't want to have them around that toxic environment and if he files for divorce while he has the kids it will make it that much harder for you to have access to them. You could end up being the non custodial parent that has visitation, doesn't get to make decisions on their behalf, and pay child support to him.
RoseMom··
Мама двоих (младенец)
So Divorce? I
BunsInMyOven·
I’m sorry you’re going through this but I agree w @massgirl
Deleted·
I am sorry you’re going through this but I also agree with massgirl do whatever you can to get the kids back.
Andy·
Мама троих детей
I can't afford to keep kids. I don't even have a place to live other then my friend's place. He said he wants me to see the kids, he wants to do this as friends
Andryane·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
I dealt with court and these ladies are right first step is to go to the courthouse and request a paper for deferral so they can wave the fees and thinga for you. Second while your up there retrieve in the law library the papers for seperation and parenting time which is what they call mediation and an agreement for custody between two parents. He doesnt have to help you if you do not have the kids bc priority is the children if you guys are seperate but you providing is a huge deal in the court process but it will be in whoevers favor when filing first so id get on it. Its free
Anna·
Prove he used the cards and take him to court for alimony
Andy··
Мама троих детей
Only proof I have is that we lived together and bills from paying for that stuff with my cards is all I have.
Anna··
either way your married it’s half his debt I believe what state are you in I know California is very strict about that and both would be responsible but as far as divorce goes you can collect alimony and request he help with that debt since he’s the working spouse
Anna·
Does he have the kids too take the kids go to a shelter and say he’s verbally abusing you and get back on your feet
sherry S·
#1 get your children and keep them #2 make a plan “many states help especially women with children with emergency shelter /housing deposit s but,you have to do your part and look and maintain work , call your local helpline for info in your city