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M. P.
Omg my bf kind of has his heart set on a puppy from a litter of them his friend has. I’m due in 2 weeks. He wants a puppy. He’s at said friends house right now, he’s going to come home with a damn puppy. Someone help me idfk how to housebreak a freaking puppy. Here’s my plan though someone tell me if it’s good or not 🤦🏼‍♀️

Borrow my parents dog crate and crate it at night and when we aren’t home(I CANT have this thing peeing wherever in the house we HAVE to get our deposit back)
I’m making my bf buy a small square footage of fake grass to put on our patio and some kind of fencing so he has his own little grass area on our patio(I already have my own dog to take outside, she hates my house and she’s very old)I’m not going to take both of them at the same time or even one first then the other especially when they both need to pee bad in the morning.

What else can I do to train it 😭😭😭 I’ll take anything cause I’ve NEVER done this before. My dog we have now my parents got her for me for my bday when I was 8 so my mom did the hard parts and got her mostly trained then let me help.
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bodybycheetos

DONT GET THE PUPPY. If you aren't going to take it on walks then it doesn't deserve to be there.

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cams

Dear LORDT, DONT GET A PUPPY.

Unless you’re cool with having 2 newborns at once.

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myausome.life

@cams, no he’s not home yet. I’m
SO scared lmao. I’m at my sons dr appointment so he should be home when I get home. I’m gonna walk in like “where’s the dog?” 😂😭

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cams

@bubbys.mommy, oh damn ! Update us when you get home 👀

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myausome.life

@cams, no dog 😂🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

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livefree.

Just tell him if he gets the puppy it’s HIS responsibility & you’re not helping him with it 🤷🏽‍♀️ lol

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myausome.life

He works from 6am to 330 😒 it’s inevitable to be my responsibility until 4 when he gets home. I told him that like I’m not the one that wants it yet it’ll get stuck on me. It would end up being my dog because IM home not him.

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livefree.

@bubbys.mommy, oh noooooo 🤦🏽‍♀️

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myausome.life

I love how everyone’s advice has been “don’t let him get the puppy” instead of “do this and this it will help” 😂 everyone seems to be on my side unlike my bf lol

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phoenix27

Show him our answers so he’ll change his mind lol

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watz

No fricking way would i allow a flipping puppy in my house when I was so close to having a newborn.
And I love dogs and know how to train them

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justgotaname

I say HELL NO to a puppy when you are about to have a newborn!! We have had our puppy for 2 full months now and I’m exhausted!! She got up at 3:30am today wanting to be up for the day!!! We have a small house and she is crated in the kitchen, where everyone can hear her!!! Crate had to be moved to the garage until 6am when I get up! I tell this story just to remind you that puppies are newborns too!!!! You will have 2 newborns! 🤷🏼‍♀️ 🍀

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myausome.life

I’m NOT getting up at 330 am to be up for the day for a damn dog 🤦🏼‍♀️ this is what I mean. My mom did this stuff and I didn’t even know About it. Ugh

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theirmommie

My husband tried to get a puppy a few weeks before my daughter was born. Nope. I'm the one that stays home and I'm not potty training a puppy with a newborn. He threw a fit, I didn't give a shit. He can get a dog when she's older but not gonna add the stress of a puppy to me when I have a csection incision and a new baby. I'd put my foot down if I were you. It's not fair to the puppy if you aren't able to fully care for it because of a new baby

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myausome.life

I’m trying. I just hate the look on his face when I asked him if he really really wanted it. It’s also hard for me to say no because last week I was begging him for a kitten and I still am or a guinea pig and although those 2 are easier to care for with a new baby it’s still 2 animals I keep asking for and now every time I say I don’t want a damn dog I feel bad because I also want an animal lol

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bodybycheetos

DONT GET THE PUPPY. If you aren't going to take it on walks then it doesn't deserve to be there.

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myausome.life

@bodybycheetos, I don’t want a damn puppy though but he’s at said friends house and I really feel like I’m gonna come home to a puppy in my house 😭😭😭

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bodybycheetos

@bubbys.mommy have him take it back 🤷🏽‍♀️ if you aren't both 100% on board with getting a puppy and taking on responsibility for it then it's a bad idea. Take it from someone who feeds, walks, bathes, exercises both dogs alone. It isn't a fun time. Especially living in an apartment and being home with the kids alone daily. Sorry if my previous comments sounded snotty. They weren't meant to be that way. I just know how hard it is having to do this shit alone with kids.

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myausome.life

@bodybycheetos, no you don’t sound snotty. I’m just annoyed that he’s so set in getting one of these puppies then I have to be home alone with 2 kids and 2 dogs by myself until 330. And I’m not sure the current owners would take it back so it would end up in a shelter and I’m generally not the person to do something like that especially since the current owners are okay with keeping them but if they leave they stay left. I can barely handle my ONE dog and my ONE child when we go outside cause he doesn’t listen for crap and my dog doesn’t either I’m like wtf

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phoenix27

Omg I would be so pissed. Men are like children sometimes expect they don’t HAVE to listen to is 😭🤣

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myausome.life

I actually told him MAYBE. But we have a high functioning autistic 2.5 year old son right now that has a hard time not teasing my 4lb chiweenie and she’s very old I’m nervous about her with another dog but I know how to handle her with that part. I said no dog until I meet them and our son meets them and plays with them. Then I set more rules like I said above.

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phoenix27

@bubbys.mommy, sounds like hard work but yes definitely have your son meet him first. I thought you meant he was going to just show up with one Lmaoo

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