So my husband just told me since he works every day and I stay at home watching the kids that he should be allowed to go…

Awesome he just called me a useless human being because I said loudly over the kids screaming that our son came home without underwear on because he was asking our son where his underwear was. Then he proceeded to tell me he was not asking me so I did not need to answer him. So that's what makes me a useless human being. Thanks asshole

I’ve been following since the baby bump days...years. Every year it’s the same ish. I’d like to reiterate that this is not healthy. You have the power to change your circumstances.

I’m sorry but what? He thinks because you’re the woman you immediately should give up your social life? And sanity? But since he’s the one with the penis that gives him the automatic right to do whatever? That’s just unbelievably ridiculous. You might as well just say the kids are only yours at this point. Me and my man have an understanding no one deserves to go out more than the other. We’re both parents of our kid. We take turns when someone wants to go out and with diaper changes, watching the kid so one can shower or cook, letting the other nap, etc. Staying home with children is just as important as a full time job. I don’t care what anyone says. You’re literally giving up a career/work experience to raise your children. That’s SOOO important. If he can’t see it as that then he just sucks.

As for going out everyday, he does not need to go out every single day. My hubs works 60+ hours a week. He’s way too tired for all of that.

I’m sorry it just makes me mad when husbands don’t let their wive’s do anything just because they stay home. I wish you the best on this situation because I’d lose my shit.

My husband comes home. I’d snap if I was you.

Even though here in New Jersey if the mother and father are both working full-time jobs you can get help with daycare we only have to pay a certain percentage of what you make he still says no to it

😮 oh my gosh. I'm home all day with my two boys and he works 50 hours a week. He is opposite he'll tell me I should get out with my 3 friends at least twice a month on the weekends so I GET a break. My two littles aren't bad but sometimes we ALL need a break. I don't think it's right of him to expect all that from you though and for him to just go do whatever, whenever. nope👍😬

Okay so I mainly get like 10 to maybe 16 hours a week to myself but I'm usually either running errands, stay home cleaning, or do something that pertains to helping out with the family stuff and needs you know. The only thing I really do for myself is go for a walk cuz I don't have money to spend on myself to go get my hair done or do anything fun, like fun shopping lol. So it's just I only get to go for a walk so other than that I just do errands. But really at the end of the day he wants to go out when I'm stuck here with all three kids making dinner for everybody with screaming kids in the house going nuts so he just wants to leave me here and go out metal detecting or bottle hunting whatever stupid s*** he does.he barely ever watches all three kids I'm the only one out of everyone in our family or babysitters or anything that watches all three kids all the time. And nobody knows what that's like The only time he watches all three is when I'm making dinner and on the weekends if I go out for a couple hours to myself while babies are napping and he's only watching our 4-year-old which is pretty easy to do when it's just one kid. And yes I get they are my kids and our kids whatever, but I'm always the one left with the three kids and it's a nightmare and everyone wonders why I'm pissed off and stressed out all the time. But he says it's my fault cuz I don't have a career and I can't find a full-time job where I'm going to make enough money, so I can't put the kids in daycare because our babysitter likes the twins already too much and so that's another reason I can't put them in daycare, because our babysitter watches the twins like 4 days a week about 5 or 6 hours a day, so because she watches them I can't work a full time job and put all the kids in daycare. so basically I'd have to work around her schedule was which isn't going to help me work full time and my mother-in-laws schedule again which isn't going to help me work full time. So my husband's using our babysitter as an excuse to not put the kids in daycare so I can work more That's freaking awesome

That's a big NOPE.

I'm telling you ladies my husband thinks it's like the 1920s and that's the way women should be treated you know how they used to treat them staying home all the time cooking cleaning watching kids never going out

He’s delusional if he actually thinks that’s going on in many households!!! It wouldn’t be goin on very long, I’ll tell you that!!!!!

Yup, My husband comes home if he didn't or he tried arguing with me I'd punch him in the throat.

I would love to punch your husband right in his dumb ass head. Just one time.

Da hell they do my man bring his ass straight home 😂