I've only had one baby shower and planned it myself.

I planed both of mine first one was huge I did a sprinkle this time around really just needed some essentials since I saved all my sons clothes.

Yeah it's my second baby and no one offered and I have nothing for this baby except a few clothes from a friend and a crib. A shower would really help, something small like a little potluck kinda thing :)

I did all my showers.

Do able. My husband and I planned ours for our firstborn. We wanted it to be co-ed and it worked out wonderfully. It all really depends on whether you want to do a big or little affair. The bigger the party, the more stress involved, so it's all about knowing what you can and can't handle.