I'm scared to post on some of ya'll posts bc alot of yall refer to yall SO as husband & you're technically not married…
I'm scared to post on some of ya'll posts bc alot of yall refer to yall SO as husband & you're technically not married lol. Marriage is a commitment & sacrifice from both ends & if yall have a blended family his kids should be looked at as your kids too🤷🏾♀️I know my BD & I aren't engaged or married but I love his son as if he was mine I wish he could come over to spend time w us but she's bitter that we're having another baby so I can't change that. She's cool with me though but hates him, weird as hell!
Shay·
Maybe you can create a plan with her? If she's cool with you. Be like "hey I'd like to take x out with the kids and go do x on x day if that's okay" if she says no, at least you tried.
Props to you 🖤
Sistersmainpiece··
@gion.92, what he should have done is gone to court for a custody and visitation order. She hates him because of their past. I’m sure he tells you one side of it so you are in agreement with him and whatever he does. My kids father has a gf. I’m cool with her. I would rather deal with her instead of him. I actually feel really sorry for her. She deserves better and I hope one day she knows her self worth. My issues with him are my issues with him alone because of our past. That doesn’t make me bitter.
Kae··
Мама четверых детей, беременна
Lmao maam no maam you're COMPLETELY WRONG. That man dont tell us different things at all you got the wrong idea!!!!! Sounds like you're getting offended by my situation bc you're going thru something similar. I dont take sides. Did you not see me say twice I have 3 kids that's not for him! I deal w their dads, I'm far from bitter. My daughter's dad had a whole other baby and lives in a different state and I STILL let her go visit them even though he isnt consistent and doesnt do shit for her. Would you let your child go to a different state at 1 2 3 yrs old without you? Ok then. So I dont mind calling a MF out on their shit when they're wrong! think you should drop this conversation cuz you getting offended for nothing. I talk to her AND him. He tells me the same shit she does, hell she tells it like it is. She would say it to both of us while we're in front of her so my situation is NOT like yours. I'm a mother before anything love, I dont take sides esp when he's wrong i call him out on his shit. I told him what he needed to hear and what he should do. Now you have a good day🤗
Sistersmainpiece··
so you think his side of their past is the same way she would describe it? Doubtful. She hates him for her reasons. I’m sure he isn’t going to tell you every detail of their relationship and past problems.
MB·
Lmao sis ole girl was not listening to anything you was saying
Kae··
Мама четверых детей, беременна
At least someone sees I wasnt wrong. I even stopped her before she continued and she KEPT going like I'm about to fuss w someone w dick slippers as her profile pic
MB··
😂 I really think she was confusing her situation with yours
Kae··
Мама четверых детей, беременна
She was! When she said "cuz I'm not bitter" like bitch who said you was tf?! Just cuz your BD ain't shit and didnt tell you what was going on w his new GF doesnt mean mine didnt. Hell they both told me & they were never in a relationship they just slept together AND he flipped her! Now I know that ain't her situation she lucky I didnt dog her ass out