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Tira
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Мама двоих (2 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего

So I don’t wanna sound depressing I just need advice if my aunt is right or wrong

So I don’t wanna sound depressing I just need advice if my aunt is right or wrong

So Monday at my ultrasound things was going good they suggested I do a blood test or test from my belly or something to see if my baby would have Down syndrome because they measurements from the ultrasound they we’re looking at the bone in the nose and the back of the neck they also changed my due date from the 10th to the 5th cause last ultrasound they measured my baby wrong despite that being concerning that’ll he’ll have Down syndrome I know he’ll be bo-leg and and the sickle cell trait which I knew about and not concerned,with me trying to get advice from my aunt to be less stress she said well I don’t know pray about it but if it was me I always said if my child came out sick I’ll give the baby up so I don’t know that’s just me if you pray about it and still don’t know just give your baby up to a rich family cause that’s a lot of work taking care of a sick child

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llcoolkay

Kayla Мама двоих (младенец)

that’s completely a personal decision to do that testing but it isn’t 100% always. A coworkers daughter was pregnant and she did the blood test and it came back that her baby would have Down syndrome so she did the amniocentesis and it said her baby has a 99% of having Down syndrome and her doctor even suggested she abort the baby. She decided to keep it and her daughter is now 10 years old and wasn’t born with any disability

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mama_of_divaz

shez_blessedМногодетная мама (6 детей), беременна

It’s all up to you. I would keep my child, but that’s me.

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salazar593

🥀⛥̷A̶n̵g̵i̴e̷⛥̴🖤Мама троих детей

I know who will never baby sit my child 🤦🏻‍♀️. That’s her opinion and her advice, there is no right or wrong when expressing your personal thoughts. What you choose to do is all up to you and no worries if your child is born with a special needs you will find a much bigger support group that will help you through it ♥️♥️♥️

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jessig2006

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I'm not sure I read this correctly: your aunt said if it was her she would give her sick child up for adoption? There is absolutely no guarantee a child healthy or sick would be placed at all. That's why there are so many children in foster care, orphanages and in need of a loving family. To me she is totally 100% wrong. It's your call if you want to have the testing done. It's important to understand the possibility of risks that come along with doing that specific kind of testing. Yes it can tell you if there is a possibility or probability of an issue but it isn't always correct. I am so sorry that you are facing this hard time. I will send you lots of love and prayers for what ever you decide to do.

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maddiesmommy16

KourtneyМама дочки (3 года), беременна (17 нед.)

I couldn’t imagine giving my baby up just because he/she may be sick or have Down syndrome. I would do everything possible to care for him/her myself, I don’t care how much work it is. That’s a decision you need to make for yourself because you’ll be the one caring for it, not your aunt but that’s just my opinion. Yes, taking care of a sick baby or Down syndrome won’t be easy but it is definitely possible.

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