He works 6-5, but I still ask him to take out the trash and load the dishwasher. That's it. He does the trash because I can't carry it to the dumpster and wrangle our son at the same time and he agrees that if I cook then he will clean up the kitchen while I clean up Lincoln.

I handle everything

I don’t expect my husband to clean up around the house, but I do expect him to clean up after himself. He does all of the outside work and I take care of the inside.

I do mostly everything the only thing I ask him to do is take the trash out and walk the dog and he also helps me with the kids when he can but that’s it I know he comes home so beat so I don’t mind getting it done

Yup. At least a little and the picking up after himself, well thats just a givin. I get needing time right after work especially since my daughters dad is a construction worker and its extremely hot and humid here but to help assist with bath time at least so i can pivk up after dinner and picking up after himself(because hes an adult) is all i ask for. Then if something happens and i literally can't do like the bed frame needs to be put together and its a bunch of screws and 5 different pieces then ill ask him when he can get to it or something like that. But night time is where i need him the most.

My husband work 5 days a week. He works overtime so a double shift maybe one or twice a week. I’m sahm. I don’t expect him to wash dishes or make breakfast lunch or dinner wash clothes or sweep mop buuttt I will tell him to change his daughter either if it’s putting a sock on picking up her hair diaper. He made her too so he needs to be able to do those things especially if I’m busy doing stuff and she is running around needing something I’ll yell at him from the kitchen or whatever and be like babe she needs this or that and he does it. Iv told him I’m not his mother before tho and that straightened some things out lol he cleans after himself clothes and all I do put away his laundry tho except socks I hate folding socks lol

My husband works and I stay home (although I do work some from home) and yes, I expect him to help me. We are a team. And even though I don’t work away from home, that doesn’t mean I don’t “work”. My days are just as long as his. We take turns with dinner, bath and bed duty with the kids. As far as housework goes, I do a lot of it inside, but he handles all the yard work and stuff outside. He does his own laundry though and if I cook dinner, he cleans up the kitchen most nights. I never want to feel like someone’s maid. And he knows not to throw the whole “well I go to work all day and bring home the money to support us” thing in my face. I gave up my career to be home with my kids. That was a huge sacrifice for me (although worth it, I might add), and it was a decision my hubby and I made together. So that’s my opinion lol.

I do everything.. BUT I also don’t mind doing it. He does normal stuff like, putting his clothes in the laundry and putting his dishes in the sink. I think there’s a difference if you don’t mind or have a problem doing it.

We also have a house that rarely gets dirty. I clean throughout the day and do laundry so by the time he gets home there is nothing to really be done besides our dinner dishes, so I make it easy on myself.

When I was a SAHM he would come home and help still. Not with laundry or deep cleaning, but he would rinse his dishes, pick up after himself, put the baby to sleep so I could shower alone. Some days if I’m making dinner when he gets home he washes up and jumps right in the kitchen and helps me cook too. It took communication to get to that point though.

My husband doesn’t do anything when he’s home, but he should. I get that he works all day but he would’ve worked all day whether we had a child or not. No, I don’t expect him to come home from work and do the dishes but he can at least clean up after himself. I expect him to put his shoes on the rack, put his clothes in the hamper, get his own dinner (already cooked he just has to plate it) and scrape his own plate and put it in the sink. I go to bed when he get home because he works 8- sometimes 10 at night or later, I hate waking up to his dinner plates and dirty clothes all over the living room. Just makes extra work for me when I already have a busy schedule. Not to mention being stay at home mom tired and way worse than working full time tired, in my opinion. I’ve done both and I don’t really remember coming home from my fulltime job full on mentally, physically, and emotionally exhausted like I do when crawling into bed after momming all day.

My husband works 6 days a week. I don't expect him to help with household stuff. Laundry, cleaning, washing dishes is my job. But if he can help me with the kids getting them in bed & changing diaper & changing the young ones clothes. Also take out the trash & put the garbage by the road. Also hang stuff or do things that I have a hard time doing around the house. If he had more time on his hands I would like him to help me more.

I'd expect him to help he helped make the baby too and we work all day when we take care of kids and we're still taking care of kids after they come home from work so they should help to. But my husband gives me that line when he comes home from work, "I worked all day, I shouldn't have to do this or that" and I'm really sick and tired of hearing it cuz if I went back to work then I guess I'm allowed to say that then to??? Oh he also tries to tell me he should have the weekends off and not do anything. He works 7 days a week. Mon- Friday 8 to 4 and Saturday-Sun 7 to 12. But the weekend thing is his summer job for just about 4 months

I do as much as I can through out the week clean, cook, doing laundry but when he does get home I expect him to help me with the kids if it's not to late

I expected him to pick up after himself to a point but I don’t expect him to clean and whatnot after working all day and he helps on his days off on his own. but I expect him to help, I work his days off and it a nice break from cleaning and kids we all deserve a break even if we don’t “work” we really do and it’s a 24/7 job we deserve a little break here and there to

I still expect him to help. I handle the day to day cleaning. Our rule is I handle the inside he does the outside cars, trash cans, yard work, etc. And yes he's a grown ass man he needs to clean up his basic mess I'm not his maid. We had this argument when we first moved into together and I quickly told him I wasn't his damn mother.