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And they also said it has to do with something with the postpartum depression anxiety that I had as well
Ahhh okay. I can't imagine that helps. Maybe I have it abit and I just don't know?
Yes it does come back it just is going to take a very long time if you do it on your own like naturally but when I went to talk to my doctor they were saying that the pills will help me with that also in the long run to get everything back in order and it actually has
Okiedokie thank you! I think I will go to the doctors xx
@jo.wilcox I'm 3 years in and still waiting too.. I'd rather sleep 😂
Yeah too quickly for me 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️I shoulda been a bloke 😂🙄xxx
@erincharlieconor possibly because I'm not on anything I'm scared to have sex too. But I wanna give my body that break. I just wish it would come back already so he knows I love him! The week after having Noah it came back stronger than ever!!! Then pissed off 😐 I think I will xxx
@nicolemariehooperxo, sex isn’t everything, but it is important for a healthy relationship so aslong as you reassure him, he understands you and you have that communication then I’m sure everything will be ok! I’d get some condoms in the drawer for “emergencies” lol! Speak to your doctor and I hope everything works out soon, does sound like a little hormone imbalance going on so hopefully won’t be long xxx
No im the same, he's always touching me and trying to give me attention, it sounds nasty but i just don't want it.. It's nice to know that he still wants me, i just don't know how to show it back without that physical part of it, i feel terrible about it though xx
You're feeling exactly how I am! I just have no idea how to show it back I want to but I just can't 😩 I think the fact I hate my own body even if he doesn't really isn't helping and like I said in the other comments my son sleeps with us so it's even harder but I wouldn't change that xxx
@nicolemariehooperxo do you both work? I don't think it helps me that being at home all day and doing the same things day in day out like im just fed up, i hate my body i love my kids more than life dont get me wrong but i miss being me.. yeah my daughter goes to sleep in her bed but gets in with us during the night xx
@sarahjane__ no neither of us do, he suffers alot with anxiety and depression which doesn't help him. Exactly I know how you're feeling xxx
Me & my OH was on about this last night, I've literally got nothing, he said he feels like i dont fancy him anymore and it makes him feel shit, i try so hard, it makes me feel even worse coz i do fancy him lol, I've just got no sex drive whatsoever x
That's what we're like, he's gone to bed tonight upset thinking I don't want/love him but I do... I don't think the fact I won't let him anywhere near me helps... but I just can't help it 😕 so horrible xxx
@jo.wilcox I'm glad you've managed to sort everything out. I can't imagine how I'd feel if sex got in the way of our relationship... yeah but like you said you're scared that its gonna knock it back even more so I get it. Noone ever tells you these sorts of things after having a baby! Xxx
@nicolemariehooperxo yeah me too! I was sure I made my mind up at the time, but I'm glad we didn't stick to being seperated. Atm it's a little hard as we've been down his parents for the last 2 week's as his dad is sick in hospital, but we're definitely doing better. Although sex is definitely out of the window while we are here 😂😂 nope they really don't tell you these things and if they did maybe we could all prepare better! Cc
@jo.wilcox I hope he's okay! Yeah inlaws house really doesn't appeal either.. I wish they did theres so much that you go through which noone tells you! Xxx
Yeah give it time it will come back xx
Mine hasn't 😭 I have none at all and I feel so sorry for my oh he feels like I'm not attracted to him anymore and I am!!! 😩 xxx
@nicolemariehooperxo, I’m sure it will ! I’m sure it’s normal after having a baby ☺️ xxx
Thank you for your comments everyone!!! I think I'll go doctors and see if they can help ❤ 👍