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Am I the only person who feel bitter, jealous, or angry when someone says “we have been trying for so long and it…

Am I the only person who feel bitter, jealous, or angry when someone says “we have been trying for so long and it finally happened for us” and then they go on to say “we have been trying for 8 months. I know what infertility feels like.” Girl I’m sorry for your struggle and that it took you 8 months to conceive. And I have no doubt that you have an idea of what it feels like. I do not want to diminish you feelings or what you have been through, but you have no idea how I feel. I have been trying for 10 years. I am nearing the dreaded 35. All of my cousins have children that are having children at this point. I then also feel bad for feeling this way. Am I a bad person?? Am I alone in this? Someone please let me know

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I just had my first at 35 after 8 years of infertility and loss via IVF. Technically , infertility is defined as not being able to conceive after 1 year of trying under 30 and 6 months over 30, but the more time that passes the easier it is to be discouraged. I would have been thrilled to get pregnant after 8 months 😅. Do you have any answers about the cause of your infertility ? @jcschafer16, If it happened for me, I believe it can happen for you too ! 🙏🏾🙌🏽

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Hi I am into my 15 week now But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside…

Hi I am into my 15 week now But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though What should i do i am very confused Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights