So there’s a few mommy’s on here that have had their 2nd baby with a toddler recently. Was just…
So there’s a few mommy’s on here that have had their 2nd baby with a toddler recently. Was just curious how it’s going so far and for anyone that has an infant with a toddler. I’m still so nervous about having Noah and a tiny baby 😭 Noah has school so that helps a lot but I’m nervous for the times he is home.
Amanda·
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
I feel you on that. I currently have a 10 year old but also a 1 1/2 year old and will be having a newborn in 3 months. Freaking out on how to juggle it
But I guess you don't really know till the baby is here. I bet after a schedule is set and it's been at least a month things will seem a little smoother. That's what I keep telling myself
Amanda··
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
@bubbys.mommy my 10 year old is on the autism spectrum. He's ADHD and needs alot of attention sometimes and I admit a little rough but yet he's gentle sometimes also. But also mine is bit older so it's different then a toddler I'd say. My toddler is the exact opposite. I'm just hoping she adjusts well
M. P. ··
same! I’m hopeful that he will adjust well considering how helpful he is with the 2 kids at daycare but again he does have those moments. I’m just now remembering that he’s in behavioral therapy right now and he will be still when the baby comes and adjusting to the baby and being helpful with her and involving him in everything will probably be a goal for both Noah and myself. His therapist will help him adjust to the baby being around.
Amanda··
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
@bubbys.mommy that's good he's in behavior therapy. That'll probably help alot I would think. Good luck to you
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I was so nervous as well but after the first day alone with the both of them you adapt. You will find your rhythm. Don’t sweat it!
M. P. ··
The first day?! Wow! Hopefully it goes that well for us lol that actually made me feel better!
👻··
@bubbys.mommy, I didn’t have all figured out! 😂 I meant the nervousness will go away!
M. P. ··
oh ha 😂 damn 😂
Heather·
it's kind of rough but do-able. lol hard to chase the tot with a baby in your arms. I limit going out in public that's for sure lol
M. P. ··
@lifewithlynnieandwill88, I haven’t gone to church in so long because of my son lol the main reason is because it would change up his whole schedule for one day and he wasn’t doing very well so we stopped going and now it’s because he runs around and I wouldn’t be able to keep him still until it was time to go to the children classes and none of the people at my church would appreciate seeing him in a harness lol
Heather··
@bubbys.mommy thankfully, lynnie goes straight to class when we get there. unfortunately, on holidays, they are with us during service so the teachers can be in service too. ugh lol so this Sunday will be hard on me.
Robyn ··
Мама троих детей
@bubbys.mommy, I use a backpack leash at church and no one says a thing! That will be your bestie with the new baby
Kayla ·
The hardest part for me so far is trying to get both of them plus myself ready to leave the house. My toddler doesn’t listen and then the baby will scream wanting to be fed lol. Other than that it’s been relatively easy so far. Oh except my daughters attitude has gotten way worst since having him
Kayla ··
@bubbys.mommy, haha good luck. I’m gonna need to learn how to get up earlier. I was late to work every day when I only had the one lol
M. P. ··
ha when I was working at Noah’s day care I’d get us up 30 minutes before we had to leave to be there on time 😂😂 I was only late once! Lmao
Kayla ··
@bubbys.mommy, dang I need to get on that level lol. I will get up an hour before I have to be at work. I live 5 minutes from my moms house which is where I drop Charley off. Then another 3 minutes to work. And I’m still 5-10 minutes late lol
M. P. ·
Thanks ladies!
Liix·
sometimes its hard trying to go out takes time getting the stuff ready or been in the store been single mom with little kids its hard but thank god my 4 year old helps me if i need a diaper or wipes or a bottle he does help me .just my 1 year old he is supper jealous troughs big tantrums😑
Ashley Nicole Williams·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
in october ill have a new born, two 2 yr olds (irish twins), a 7yr old and 9 yr old. doing anything that means leaving the house means planning ahead and i feel like im constantly cleaning but other than that it hasnt been so bad with 4 so i dont think 5 will be too bad either