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Emmy.0802
Emmy.0802
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So I’m a bit bummed. I told my (usually)super supportive mom about the baby today. She was happy/shocked. One of the…

So I’m a bit bummed. I told my (usually)super supportive mom about the baby today. She was happy/shocked. One of the things she said really bothered me though. She said, “ I’d have thought you’d plan it..,” then stopped. I’m not sure how she was going to finish but it bothered me.

I’m obviously super happy to be pregnant but a bit surprised it happened so soon. It took 18 months with my dd so I wasn’t expecting to get pregnant so soon after stopping birth control, plus I’m still breastfeeding. I wanted at least two years between the two. I know 22 months is pretty close.

Sorry for rambling but I’m feeling deflated that she was negative about it. Now I’m wishing we waited a bit longer to start trying again.

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emmy.0802

Emmy.0802Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (6 нед.)

Thanks!

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heatherlou88

HeatherМама двоих (младенец)

I think it's a good age gap. my daughter was 23 1/2 months when my son was born. she will be excited eventually. don't feel bad! congratulations!

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rememberjerika2000

jessica riveraМногодетная мама (5 детей), беременна

Noo don’t let anyone ruin your happiness not even your mom.. as long as your husband n yourself are happy n ready that’s all that should matter congratulations hun.

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