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Ruby Graham
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30 minutes until my birthday and I'm trying not to cry my eyes out. Husband is abandoning me for half the day (at least)…

30 minutes until my birthday and I'm trying not to cry my eyes out. Husband is abandoning me for half the day (at least) to go watch Endgame with his "bestie". Even bought her a shirt because she said she "wanted it" and would "pay us back" while I'm wearing clothes that are falling apart (which I know he will refuse the pay back so he basically just bought it for her). Looks like this will be another crappy birthday. Cant even afford to spoil myself at all because of him so yay for me.

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I think you meant to put "ex husband" bc that's what he should be.. You deserve to be put first.

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cams

Cams Мама троих детей

Did your step dad leave you any money or property? Maybe that’s why he decided to stay? He’s an asshole. Kick him to the curb. And happy birthday!

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glyndsey97

LyndseyМама дочки-младенца

I’d say leave him if he wants to act like that something seems wrong it looks like he already made his decision sweetie and it isn’t you it’s time to move on and find someone you deserve

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txmomma1618

Kara BrownМама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY! You still have me you know this I work today or I would say we could hang out and forget about those 2 for a while. Txt me.

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cams

Cams Мама троих детей

Did your step dad leave you any money or property? Maybe that’s why he decided to stay? He’s an asshole. Kick him to the curb. And happy birthday!

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boymama523

Bye

My husband and I decided before we got married we couldn’t be close friends with members of the opposite sex. Works for us!

I’d be very skeptical what they’re really up to.

Happy Birthday! Enjoy your son!

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bunsinmyoven

BunsInMyOvenМама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего

And happy birthday! I hope you and your son can celebrate

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bunsinmyoven

BunsInMyOvenМама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего

At some point we have to decide if we want to continue to allow people to treat us poorly. I’m sorry to say but your husband does not care about you or have any respect for you. Can I ask why he wanted a divorce before?

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ruby.graham85.rg

Ruby GrahamМама сына (4 года)

Basically told me I was a bad wife and he "loved but wasnt in love" with me

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bunsinmyoven

BunsInMyOvenМама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего

@ruby.graham85.rg, he’s a loser. You deserve better. Don’t let him try to fool you with this “bestie” they are both trash

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jessig2006

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I am so sorry you're going through this. Happy Birthday! We are birthday twins 🎂 🎁 🎊 I hope your day isn't complete 💩

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ruby.graham85.rg

Ruby GrahamМама сына (4 года)

Thank you and Happy Birthday to you too

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heatherlou88

HeatherМама двоих (младенец)

Happy Birthday♡♡

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ruby.graham85.rg

Ruby GrahamМама сына (4 года)

Thank you

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lovemeforever19

LoveMeForEver19

Whew. I couldn’t do it. My SO has a woman Bestfriend but it’s only so much that he can do for her. Idc that she is a woman but she ain’t about to be coming in between us.

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I think you meant to put "ex husband" bc that's what he should be.. You deserve to be put first.

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heatherlou88

HeatherМама двоих (младенец)

it's very disrespectful that he thinks it's OK to have a girl bestie first of all. I'd be super mad. I'd also be snooping through his phone to see how they text each other etc. this isn't right. have u met her?

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ruby.graham85.rg

Ruby GrahamМама сына (4 года)

I have met her. She and I have even hung out a couple times.

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heatherlou88

HeatherМама двоих (младенец)

@ruby.graham85.rg well, she has no respect for you either. something is definitely up here. I'm sorry you're going through this!

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dee2115

Dee Мама двоих (младенец)

I just read your other post too. Tell us more about this “bestie” because its not looking too good 😳😐

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trashytracey

trashytracey

He's banging her ya know

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kimberly_preemie-mom

Kimberly Мама двоих (3 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего

I read your previous post. I’m sorry you’re going through that. I think if your relationship is meant to work you’ll have to put your foot down and tell him how his behaviors are affecting your marriage. It’s okay to have a best friend, but not to where it comes between your marriage. Like, it doesn’t matter that it’s a woman, but it’s the part where he’s not helping you keep things strong in your life and relationship. I hope he somehow surprises you with something fun for your birthday, but if not maybe it’s time to think about whether you’re better with the guy or without him. 😪

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kimberly_preemie-mom

Kimberly Мама двоих (3 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего

@ruby.graham85.rg, I mean.... the other two comments cover what else I was going to say. I personally am a jealous person and I would really have a problem with my husband being best friends with a woman because I would worry about those things, but I feel like when people get defensive over something or try to twist it on others it tends to be due to a guilty conscious. I only know what you’ve posted here but it’s not really looking too good. I’m sorry. I’m not trying to be mean or anything. It just sounds like a tough situation to be in. Did I see a comment on a different post saying he wanted a divorce?

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ruby.graham85.rg

Ruby GrahamМама сына (4 года)

@kimberly_the-preemie-mom he wanted a divorce until my stepdad died and then he suddenly changed his mind. Smh.

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kimberly_preemie-mom

Kimberly Мама двоих (3 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего

@ruby.graham85.rg, well, no matter the outcome, I’m sorry you’re going through it and I hope you stay strong for your little man.

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dee2115

Dee Мама двоих (младенец)

WHAT. I would be fuming! Also doesn’t help that his bestie is a her. Yep, I said it. I’d be pissed 🤷🏻‍♀️

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