Мама сына (4 года)

30 minutes until my birthday and I'm trying not to cry my eyes out. Husband is abandoning me for…

30 minutes until my birthday and I'm trying not to cry my eyes out. Husband is abandoning me for half the day (at least) to go watch Endgame with his "bestie". Even bought her a shirt because she said she "wanted it" and would "pay us back" while I'm wearing clothes that are falling apart (which I know he will refuse the pay back so he basically just bought it for her). Looks like this will be another crappy birthday. Cant even afford to spoil myself at all because of him so yay for me.

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Deleted26.04.2019

I think you meant to put "ex husband" bc that's what he should be.. You deserve to be put first.

Cams 26.04.2019

Did your step dad leave you any money or property? Maybe that’s why he decided to stay? He’s an asshole. Kick him to the curb. And happy birthday!

I read your previous post. I’m sorry you’re going through that. I think if your relationship is meant to work you’ll have to put your foot down and tell him how his behaviors are affecting your marriage. It’s okay to have a best friend, but not to where it comes between your marriage. Like, it doesn’t matter that it’s a woman, but it’s the part where he’s not helping you keep things strong in your life and relationship. I hope he somehow surprises you with something fun for your birthday, but if not maybe it’s time to think about whether you’re better with the guy or without him. 😪

Kimberly 26.04.2019

@ruby.graham85.rg, I mean.... the other two comments cover what else I was going to say. I personally am a jealous person and I would really have a problem with my husband being best friends with a woman because I would worry about those things, but I feel like when people get defensive over something or try to twist it on others it tends to be due to a guilty conscious. I only know what you’ve posted here but it’s not really looking too good. I’m sorry. I’m not trying to be mean or anything. It just sounds like a tough situation to be in. Did I see a comment on a different post saying he wanted a divorce?

Ruby Graham26.04.2019

Мама сына (4 года)

@kimberly_the-preemie-mom he wanted a divorce until my stepdad died and then he suddenly changed his mind. Smh.

Kimberly 26.04.2019

well, no matter the outcome, I’m sorry you’re going through it and I hope you stay strong for your little man.

trashytracey26.04.2019

He's banging her ya know

Dee 26.04.2019

I just read your other post too. Tell us more about this “bestie” because its not looking too good 😳😐

Heather26.04.2019

it's very disrespectful that he thinks it's OK to have a girl bestie first of all. I'd be super mad. I'd also be snooping through his phone to see how they text each other etc. this isn't right. have u met her?

Ruby Graham26.04.2019

Мама сына (4 года)

I have met her. She and I have even hung out a couple times.

Heather26.04.2019

well, she has no respect for you either. something is definitely up here. I'm sorry you're going through this!

Deleted26.04.2019

I think you meant to put "ex husband" bc that's what he should be.. You deserve to be put first.

LoveMeForEver1926.04.2019

Whew. I couldn’t do it. My SO has a woman Bestfriend but it’s only so much that he can do for her. Idc that she is a woman but she ain’t about to be coming in between us.

Heather26.04.2019

Happy Birthday♡♡

Ruby Graham26.04.2019

Мама сына (4 года)

Thank you

J26.04.2019

I am so sorry you're going through this. Happy Birthday! We are birthday twins 🎂 🎁 🎊 I hope your day isn't complete 💩

Ruby Graham26.04.2019

Мама сына (4 года)

Thank you and Happy Birthday to you too

BunsInMyOven26.04.2019

At some point we have to decide if we want to continue to allow people to treat us poorly. I’m sorry to say but your husband does not care about you or have any respect for you. Can I ask why he wanted a divorce before?

Ruby Graham26.04.2019

Мама сына (4 года)

Basically told me I was a bad wife and he "loved but wasnt in love" with me

BunsInMyOven26.04.2019

he’s a loser. You deserve better. Don’t let him try to fool you with this “bestie” they are both trash

BunsInMyOven26.04.2019

And happy birthday! I hope you and your son can celebrate

Bye26.04.2019

My husband and I decided before we got married we couldn’t be close friends with members of the opposite sex. Works for us!

I’d be very skeptical what they’re really up to.

Happy Birthday! Enjoy your son!

Cams 26.04.2019

Did your step dad leave you any money or property? Maybe that’s why he decided to stay? He’s an asshole. Kick him to the curb. And happy birthday!

Kara Brown26.04.2019

HAPPY BIRTHDAY! You still have me you know this I work today or I would say we could hang out and forget about those 2 for a while. Txt me.

Lyndsey26.04.2019

I’d say leave him if he wants to act like that something seems wrong it looks like he already made his decision sweetie and it isn’t you it’s time to move on and find someone you deserve

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