Beyond frustrated and beyond done. In nearly 11 years, you've provided for us 1 year... 1 year out of 11. You have let us lose our house (the house we brought our son home to that you promised me was going to be our home for the next 5 years), our utilities, soon our only vehicle, and multiple other things and thrown me under the bus everytime it comes to finances. I'm done. You are more concerned with your "bestie" than your wife. Fine. Let her take you in because I'm done. It wont be pretty but I can go it alone. I dont need you. I've allowed you to be a part of my life but I refuse to let you draw it down any longer! Shape up or ship out!!