Honestly ever sense our 3rd baby was born everything changed btwn me & hubby😒🥺😔 There is no hugs & kisses also the Intimacy is all wacked!🤮 even tho i want to be with him id hard bc I'm breastfeeding my son & when i want to be with him he falls to sleep and he does not even try to touch me anymore. Idk i sometimes feel like he is talking to someone else but i'm not 💯% sure idk what to do we already try talking things out & nothing changes. I tried making the first move also tried making him a hicky & he told me to stop & then i asked him yesterday he said he was just PLAYING! But he was not playing to me 🤔🤔
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@claudie_02 you could also try watching a movie together after the kids have gone to bed. Get your favorite snacks and drinks and hang out even if it's just for a little bit. Idk something that y'all can do alone but doesn't require a babysitter. For my husband and I we will even just take the kids and go out to dinner as a family. 🤷♀️
@mommyof.3, Good idea thank you do much! Cause he feels like i dont want to have intimacy with him but is not that i am just 😩 exhausted & tired 😓 i told him eventually things will get better
@claudie_02 does he help out with the kiddos? I know the feeling. The best way is to really explain it to him. Then maybe he will get that but also keep trying to have alone time so that way he knows you at least want to hang out with him, you know?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
First real case of Discrimination today. 😯
General Contractor kept asking where my SO when I was pulling off the job. Even said ‘How come he doesn’t come here and talk to me like a man’. Wow. I ended up calling the police because felt threatened in how defensive he was talking. Sheesh.
I talked to a friend in the industry and told him everything that happen and he cut me off yelling ‘THATS DISCRIMINATION!’
Do I let it go? Or take him to court?
It’s no problem when my money is covering my husbands part of the bills but god forbid when it’s time for him to pay me back no only does he give me a little at a time when I wasn’t paying bills little at a time but he always try to play this guilt card talking about I got no money well I don’t got money either when I have to pay ur portion I don’t feel bad
I know a mom who carries her sonn alllll the time. And her Daughters carry him ALL the time as well. He is one and a half and cannot walk! Because they carry him all day. 😠 idk how to help her at this point. He also does not sleep through the night or talk 😞 is that even normal?
If you can, try a date night. Even if it's only for an hour or two. Maybe that alone time could help. 🤷♀️