Sorry that was so long I just know how you feel and it got me all worked up just typing it out!!!

I've been there, and for the most part I still am. When I was a stay-at-home mom I was expected to do every single teeny tiny little thing. I work full time now and I'm still pretty much expected to do every single teeny tiny little thing. I get up at 5 a.m. every morning and get three people ready for the day drop my daughter off at the babysitter and work from 7 a.m. to 3 p.m. pick her up I'm usually home by 3:30 I do some cleaning make dinner and I have to clean that up I do laundry I do all my daughter's care etc.... he does stuff here and there every once in awhile but he has to be asked, never offers, he usually half-asses it anyway and then I have to finish it. There has been times where for example the other day I came home from work and I did a sink full of dishes started laundry then made dinner. When he finished dinner he just went and plopped his ass on the couch while dinner was still sitting on the table I was doing dishes laundry cleaning a litter box Gathering trash for trash day all while I'm getting "mommy mommy mommy mommy". I remember another time when I was a SAHM I was cooking dinner while washing the dishes as I was cooking to keep up with dishes while I was on the phone with our cable company because once again they screwed up our bill while I had my daughter who at the time was about three tugging at my leg. I looked over and he was just sitting on the couch watching the whole thing go down!! Needless to say I needed to freak out and that's the only thing that works. The only way he'll get up and do anything is if I freak out because I'm such a quiet person that when I do that he gets scared. It was hard doing everything as a full-time SAHM. Now, I feel as though I'm still a stay-at-home mom but now I also work. I'm always exhausted and stressed out but if I don't do it it won't get done.

Feeeeeeeelllllssss🙌👏