Angelica
angiechz
Angelica·Мама подростка

Is it rude to decline baby shower by ex mother in law??

I’m pregnant and I decided to leave my baby’s father (toxic, narcissistic). We haven’t spoken to each other or seen each other in almost 2 months and probably won’t until baby is born. His mother wants to throw me a baby shower... I don’t know anyone here in Orlando as I’ve only lived here a short time and most of the people invited will be his family and friends. Would it be rude to decline a baby shower??

I don’t feel like putting on a fake smile, or pretend around people I don’t know.

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bridgett2731
Bridgett·Мама троих детей

Wat ever u are most comfortable doing

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angiechz
Angelica·Мама подростка

Thank you ALL for the feedback! 😊 I’m sure I could explain that to her and she’d understand. I just needed some reassurance. I would definitely feel uncomfortable around them, especially if he decides to show up 😒 Appreciate all your feedback!!

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naturalmama
Asya ♡·Мама двоих (1 год, 7 лет)

That's nt rude. U shouldn't have to put urself in an uncomfortable situation. Say hell naaaa lol

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angiechz
Angelica·Мама подростка

As much as I’d loooove to tell them that way 😅 I’m trying to be “cordial”.

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naturalmama
Asya ♡·Мама двоих (1 год, 7 лет)

@angiechz lol I know I'm joking girl 😂😂 but yea just be cool about it and I like how one girl said they still had the shower but she just didnt go but got all the gifts. Maybe if u just explain she would understand.

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madhatter
Madi M.·В ожидании первенца

Not at all. Maybe you can just say you aren't super comfortable with that but feel free to make a registry or something on amazon. That way people can still send gifts for the baby but you aren't on display.

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butterflymom3
butterflyMom3·Мама четверых детей

i was in a similar situation with my oldest, i didn’t attend the shower (he did) but i welcomed her to drop the gifts off 😂🤷🏽‍♀️ and she did...

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lovemeforever19

Nope it’s not rude .

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mommabrina
Brina·Мама двоих (4 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего

I don’t think it’s rude at all, I think your feelings are totally valid. Could you possibly just explain this all to her?

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