Turns out my kid doesn’t like my in laws as much as I don’t sometimes. 🤷🏼♀️
I don’t let her see/know my resentment of them. They are just extremely greedy and rude sometimes. But nothing to freak out about. But every time she is left with them apparently she’s bad and unhappy. She’s an absolute angel child at my parents house. Guess I’m just gonna stop bringing her over obviously she’s picked up on something.
I couldn’t help but notice his mom was extra bitchy looking today. She probably hurt her feelings.
My kids are the same way. Anytime they're at my in laws they just act.. weird. Like not bad but just not how they do around my family that they're comfortable with. They definitely pick up on the negative vibes.
@joeywiththegoodhair do we have the same in laws? 😂 I come from a family that doesn't play favorites at all. So to have to deal with my husband's parents who not only play favorites with the grandkids, they also play favorites with their own kids and even daughter in laws, is infuriating. I hate it and the worse they get the more we keep the kids away. 🤷🏻♀️ In the long run they're the ones missing out on some great kids.
@_leah, YUP. The girls in that family can do no wrong. They are entitled. The teenager expects to be paid if she watches my kid. Excuse me but you are not the home owner and you are never alone there are always adults there and she is there to visit her GRANDPARENTS AND AUNTS AND UNCLE (It’s a full god damn house) so I have no reason to believe you are the sole person watching her especially when she spends the day playing with her cousin who is 7. So why should i pay you? Why would I pay any of the kids in that family they never move out!! 😂 they mooch and mooch and the parents pay for everything. It’s regoddamndoculous. I never have them watch her but I needed the hell while my husband was hospitalized. And my dads bars grand opening is tomorrow so we needed to do a lot today because many workers bailed last minute.
@joeywiththegoodhair jeez! I wouldn't pay them either. My in laws make it so obvious they don't want to watch our kids. They've maybe watched them 3-4 times. One time my MIL made me sooo mad. So we asked her like a week in advance if she could watch the boys for us when we had my appointment to find out the gender of our youngest. We took our oldest with us so we figured it'd be no big deal for her to watch the boys. She said that was fine and she had nothing going on. Well for whatever reason she insisted on having my husband's youngest brother help her watch them. Whatever not a big deal to me. I didn't think much of it. But then on the day of my appointment, my BILs freaking cat needed picked up from the vet because it had surgery the day before. His car had broke down so he couldn't go pick it up but didn't want to wait for his girlfriend to get off work.(they had all day to pick it up) Instead of her just waiting or letting him take her car to pick the dang cat up, she called us and said she was going to drive him and wanted the boys picked up. So I had to have my mom go pick my boys up while we were 45 minutes away in the middle of my appointment. Never mentioned a single thing about the cat beforehand. A freaking cat was more important than her own grandkids. 🤦🏻♀️
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
(Thread Closed) Let’s go out with a bang
Let all the dramas unfold! I blame Jessica Alba
Joe loves his daddy's side of the family. My parents however completely is different story. But they criticize my every decision about him and I think he picks up on their negative vibes.