He said whatever I say has no value because I don't bring income into the house
Smh. Men are soo ungrateful sometimes! I would get a job from home or a little part time job so he can go 🖕🏽. They don't understand how hard it is on us to be a full time mom and wife 😒
Very true I already have a job waiting for me from home I just need a !3 computer to download the program for that job which I cant afford right now
Whattt that’s crazy.
I’d stop doing his laundry and cleaning. You guys are equals. I’m sure he wouldn’t like it if you were the money maker and said that to him, what an ass.
I wouldn’t suggest daycare (great option for some) but for me, my thing is I’m waiting for my daughter to be able to talk to me so she can tell me all about her day and if they treated her right.
@scx your right thank you for taking the time to right to me he always says dont worry about cooking and stuff because he wants my main focus on the baby I cook every day and I clean and he us too particular about his clothes he thinks no one can clean them better then him so why bother and when i cook sometime he just doesn't feel like eating what i made and orders it's like everything I do is not up to his standards and then he complains about it
@verguinia, that’s frustrating then! I’d definitely talk to him about this, like how does he expect you guys to be equals if he’s not treating you the way you DESERVE to be treated. I’m sorry you’re going through this :( it’s tough, I’ve been there. Maybe if you got a part time job on his days off so he can be with the girls and he can see just how much you do for him and them . Sometimes it takes a man doing it all alone to feel appreciated 💛
That’s a day lol
I did that once, and I got work from work. All the dishes were in a nice neat pile and he bought paper plates. Lmao 🤦🏻♀️ this was before kids.
Yes! I think about doing this everyday, but I know if I do that in the end I would have to clean the giant pile of dishes and clean. I said if I leave who is gonna take care of this place and cook, he said he will hire a maid LMFAO, yeah buddy good luck with that
I agree I feel like he doesn't value anything I do and being a mom is the hardest job ever
Oh no! That's complete crap. Leave him home with baby for one day and let him try to do everything you do in a day! I worked full time after the birth of our two oldest and went part time right before we found out I was pregnant with our third. I love my babies more than anything in the world but work is my little escape/my me time. I am back to working full time now.
I feel the same sadly my profession is working with kids so there is no escape :( I just started school to be a dental assistant when i Finnish the course I'm defenatly going to get my me time!!!
True i know my baby is too small for daycare I'm only breastfeeding

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Things I never thought I'd say...
Until I became a mom:
Stop doing all the things you do. Let the dishes and his laundry pile up. Then ask him to say that again.