What’s the most selfish thing you’ve seen another momma do? And go! Lol
Smoke while pregnant , drink or drugs while pregnant - also a mom who takes care of her needs before her baby who obviously cannot do things for itself . ( meaning eating and sleeping overtime while baby is hungry and alone )
Neglect and abuse a child . Told me she rather her child sleep in the car with her than go with family .
Yes eventually CPS removed the kids .
Kids are doing well now .
@briannalynn547, yup and she has since lost her parental rights . Kids are Better off without her.
My nephew was born severely dependent on meth and heroin. Both parents abandoned him. Spent 8 weeks in NICU and still had withdrawals weeks after being home. Worse case his social worker has seen in her 15 years. I wouldn’t piss on that lady if she were on fire.
@briannalynn547, he is soon to be adopted by a maternal cousin that is unable to have children of their own. He is doing great. He is 17 months and has been hitting all his milestones. They believe if he is to have any issues that it most likely may be behavioral but only time will tell!
@massmomma16, that’s great that they both have a happy ending . Hopefully he won’t have any type of behavioral issues !
This is an ex friend of mine. She birthed her child and from the first day she came home from the hospital she never fed him a bottle, changed his diaper, bathed him or did anything with him. Never provided for him at all. She worked but spent every dime on herself every Friday. She would go out every day and do anything and everything except take care of her son. Her mother did everything from day one and he’s almost 4 now and his mother still lives in the same house but does NOTHING. It’s like she birthed a baby and said let’s just be roommates.
@briannalynn547, I called cps a couple times and nothing ever came of that. I mean he’s not being physically abused or anything like that but it’s sad. I don’t know how someone could ignore their child and not give a damn about their development. It’s just a strange situation.
@bunnybunny, you’d think they’d get suspicious if she didn’t have any intervention because of his delays . If my child wasn’t talking or potty trained by that age I’d definitely seek some type of help!
Not get a job to provide for her and her son and the one that’s on the way and want to live off the government and that’s a reason he was taken from her. 🤦🏻♀️
That’s so sad. People are so lazy. I would get food stamps until I am able to get on my feet but after I’m in my feet no more food stamps. They found drugs in her system too and that’s another reason he was taken from her.
@mama_boricuax2, yeah there’s nothing wrong with getting help where it’s needed , but don’t abuse it
My mom is probs the most selfish I’ve ever met. One time she left my brother and me home until 4am Christmas when we were 7 and 8 to go to the bar then came home and threw the gift she got us outside and stomped it. Used to drop me off at crack houses so she could go hook up or do drugs. Left us home with no food so she’d have money for beer/drugs. Etc etc.
@briannalynn547, it’s no biggy lol. I know how not to raise my kids now.
@tatsandcats, and I bet you’re doing a hell of a job!
@briannalynn547, thank you! I’m trying haha
Easy. I've seen a mom go out only buy food for herself, got herself things and asked other people for money for her daughter, boy things for her bf, and quit a job just because a friend did knowing she had to support her daughter. This is all the things my step daughters mom does. She also kept smoking around her even after dr told her not too because she had to use an inhaler. I don't how many times my step daughter told me she leave them away home to pick up food just for herself. One time she told me away like 6 now she had a piece of bologna for dinner her mom had subway
Idk why people will continue to smoke around children . I flipped on my mother for smoking around my Step sister . Like it’s not that hard to go outside . There is 0 excuse for smoking around your children or even smoking in a room your child goes in. My bf won’t even smoke in our car because the smell DOES linger and his car seat is in there .
@briannalynn547 she was smoking in the house and in the car with her and she had to use an inhaler because of all the smoking she did around her. I cussed her ass out.
Drink moonshine pregnant one of my friends admitted to doing cocaine she basically asked if it would do anything smh and she stripped for the first three months
@boymom123, OH I thought you meant me cause you were like not to be rude 😂😭 but yeah that’s disgusting. I would feel like such trash
@briannalynn547, girl no I buy my kids expensive stuff I go over board husband must think I’m nuts
@boymom123, my bfs worse than I am smh 😭😂🤷🏻♀️
My sister is putting off getting my niece her ear tubes put in because the doctor told her she can't put her in swimming classes at the YMCA. 😬 She's waiting until the fall because she doesn't want to deal with not letting her get water in her ears during the summer when they go to the pool. Even though she can use earplugs for her she just says "she will pull them out and they look dumb" so she's just gonna keep letting her get ear infections back to back I guess. Drives me insane.
Decide to become a coke addicted stripper and abandon her kid.
@briannalynn547, yeah she’s a fucking gutter slut. Always has been.
Spends all her money on her boyfriend and herself and none on the kids. Not even clothes for school or food and expects her family to buy everything for the kids.
Well this was years ago but my sister and I went to a laundromat with her kids and while we were there there was 2 women with a little boy and a little girl. They were waiting for their laundry just like we were and just like we did they decided to order food from the pizza restaurant next door. But all they bought were two sandwiches for themselves and nothing for the children and yes I'm about to tell you that one of the women actually looked at the kids and said "oh sorry kids we only had enough money for us" while the kids were sitting there looking at them eating!!! My sister and I were so pissed we let their kids come over and share our food. 😠
I mean, my mother used to go out to eat to nice restaurants while me and my 3 siblings sat at home with nothing but bread in the house.
@mommaofjais, I have an amazing mil . I’m pretty sure she loves me more than my bf 🤷🏻♀️😂 (oops ) they always say she’s a lesbian for me because she takes me shopping and is literally just always doing things for me . If she sees something she thinks II’ll like , she gets it lmfao . But that’s because she thought my bf would be with his nasty ex forever and she made him drop his whole family for three years . She always tells me that she’s so grateful for me and if me and my bf never worked out she knows I wouldnt ever be bitter
@briannalynn547, awe, that really is so sweet!
Me and my MiL are text buddies. It weird to go a day without texting her. Lol
@mommaofjais, that’s me and mine too! Lol . One day I didnt heat from her at all and I was blowing up her phone 😂😂😂
My cousin left her 2 year old to "babysit" her 1 year old while she went out to the bar and to hook up with a guy.
@bodybycheetos, I couldnt imagine . I freak out leaving my son with my mom to go to the store 5 mins away
That was the exact crime the time I was called for jury duty! (They selected the jury before I was questioned so I was not on the jury, don’t know how it ended.)
Bail the kids off with someone all the time so they can go partying every weekend.
@briannalynn547, some women are just plain selfish.
@lakota-winyan, they really are . Some people don’t deserve kids . And they all think they’re mother of the year .
Smoke while pregnant , drink or drugs while pregnant - also a mom who takes care of her needs before her baby who obviously cannot do things for itself . ( meaning eating and sleeping overtime while baby is hungry and alone )
@mrsmord, ugh I HATE when my son is up late . And the second he’s up crying he has a bottle or fruit pouch in his mouth right away so he doesn’t get to hungry.
@briannalynn547, yes! What are they going to do when the kid goes to school? I know a few that call themselves homeschooling just because they can’t get their lazy asses up and get them to school on time.
@blueismycolor, that’s exactly what I think! Like I get that it’s extremely hard to sleep train, but it’s part of being a mother . Either change your sleeping habits so they’ll fall asleep early with you or put them to bed alone . Yeah it’s hard but it’s necessary
Bail the kids off with someone all the time so they can go partying every weekend.