So, I’m really having a war in my mind... I’ve been a single mom to my 5 year old son... and recently I started dating a guy and I’m pregnant, I realized that I don’t want to be with the guy.. ( he’s nice and he didn’t do anything wrong, just not the one for me), now I don’t know if I should have the baby... I don’t want to end up having to take care of everything by myself. Everyone is telling me not to keep the baby but a huge part of me wants to keep it
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Keep it. You'll regret it more if you keep it as opposed to aborting it. Its something that haunts you and traumatizes you forever
Yes he knows, and he said that he will be there for the child no matter what.
@tajicashaw, I mean you have to really think about it girl. You will probably end up regretting an abortion if you already want the baby.
If you want it already, you will regret it if you have an abortion. Just get him for child support. Not to be..mean or anything but that’s what I would do
It’s such a hard and personal decision. I’m pro choice, I also believe that abortions aren’t a form of birth control.
I hope you got pregnant from failed BC and not from careless sex, especially since you know/knew you weren’t serious about this dude.
I think you’ll make the right decision for you. Good luck.
I Have a question mommies I’m a First Time Mom and everyone keeps saying when my baby get here there gonna take my baby but I don’t trust people like that and I promise I’m not trying to be mean but I don’t want anyone to have a my baby and I know people are going to ask so my question is How do you say no without being mean ?🤔 I don’t even plan on letting my child spend the night with people when he gets older it’s just so much happen to me as a kid and I don’t want that for my baby
My significant other hasn’t been to one appt. am I crazy for being bothered about it? I’m already depressed I’m having another baby. I didn’t even want anymore. I feel like I don’t have the support I need.
So I don’t think I will keep this pregnancy and I don’t know what I’m supposed to do
20 days to my due date and yesterday I was 1 cm dilated. I’m so ready to be a mama to my baby. But she’s so not wanting to come out. Anyone have tips, to get my baby out?
*UPDATE*
Ladiessssss so I was debating on sharing this information as it means a lot to me so at my anatomy appointment they are referring me to get a second more detailed sonogram specifically for the babies heart. They are telling me that my babies heart is undelvoped on the left side and that it is possible that she will need heart surgery after i deliver. There sending me to a whole nother hospital and the damn doctor even said that i might wanna consider ending my pregnancy 😩 smh all this ...
Keep your baby you dont have to be with him in order to raise the child right just let him know how u feel and that u dont think he is the one for u for a relationship but u would still like to coparent the best way possible more like friends who have a child together