Follow up from last post. So I sat the boys down and had a serious convo about inappropriate…

Follow up from last post.

So I sat the boys down and had a serious convo about inappropriate touching. Had to tell them the difference between incident last night and extremely inappropriate touching. Sexual abuse. This convo was mainly for my 6yo as the 4yo was listening but not really participating in ya know? I told my 6yo I was unbelievably proud of him for how he reacted in the situation but also had to tell him it wasn’t as serious and the other touching/kissing. Reiterated to them that they are 100% in control of what happens to their bodies. If someone ever does anything u don’t want them to do u scream no. Run away and tell mom, dad, teacher, whenever in school. I had to tell them that some adults do touch children inappropriately and that’s very very wrong. The convo went extremely well with my 6yo and we will continue the convo all the time. Also reiterated that they should always tell mom and dad if anything ever happens. I think I handled it well and will continue to do so with my children. It’s sad to tell a 6yo that some adults do that to children but truth is it happens all the time. To Those who have ever been affected by sexual abuse I’m so sorry that’s every happened and we can only do better for the next generation and our children! This has been wonderful talking about here. This is such an important convo to have with Children and adults alike. Thanks ladies!!