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Anna
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Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего

So I’m still trying to figure out what to do about my doctor forcing me to have a c-section. This gives me terrible…

So I’m still trying to figure out what to do about my doctor forcing me to have a c-section. This gives me terrible anxiety 😓 I never had a problem with my two previous births and now they throw this at me.

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kharvell18845

AnnaМама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего

Yes I had my last two vaginally with no complications at all. The cyst is so tiny though that my neurologist won’t do anything about it. It doesn’t put any pressure on my brain and I had an mri recently (last June) that showed that it wasn’t doing anything to the vessels around it. It’s on the outer protective layer of my brain so not really on it. It’s called an arachnoid cyst. I’m just confused how if it’s already there and if it bursts how it would cause more pressure?

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cams

Cams Мама троих детей

Looks like google MD 😅 says that ruptured arachnoid cysts are instantaneous and can be life threatening. I guess this new doc is just doesn’t want to take any chances?? I would ask at your next appt.

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cams

Cams Мама троих детей

So you have a cyst on your brain that could burst while you’re laboring. Strenuous pushing. The fluid that leaks out could put pressure on your brain and could lead to a scary situation. This is my guess as to why she won’t let you labor naturally. You had your last 2 vaginally with no complications?

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kharvell18845

AnnaМама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего

I agree 100%. I used to just listen to whatever my doctor said but this is getting out of hand

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cantdeletebutimgone

cantdeletebutimgoneМама дочки (5 лет)

They can't force you. They're supposed to encourage natural birth and only C-sections for medical reasons or an emergency. I would get a second opinion and maybe even contact a lawyer

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cantdeletebutimgone

cantdeletebutimgoneМама дочки (5 лет)

@kharvell18845 definitely do that. Talk to anyone and everyone you can about this. There have been many many cases of doctors getting court orders to force women to have C-sections against their will. Just in case I would be prepared if that's what your doctors are going to try to do. Basically they can get a court order to become The Unborn Child legal guardian and force you.

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kharvell18845

AnnaМама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего

@momsrmagical, what??? That’s ridiculous! Because it doesn’t even have to do anything with the baby, he’s totally healthy. These doctors think they can control everything. I’m sick of it!

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cantdeletebutimgone

cantdeletebutimgoneМама дочки (5 лет)

@kharvell18845 yeah, this is really a thing. They absolutely do think that they can do whatever they want because they have a PhD or a doctorate. Makes them feel like they have seniority but as our civil rights and as human beings we have the right to refuse and nobody should be able to force anybody to do anything. All the technology and the medicine that we have today and still to this day every time a woman becomes pregnant she's putting her life at risk. Many women still die from giving birth and a C-section is absolutely absolutely more risky then a natural birth.

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iuiblessing2018

IUIMom18Мама дочки-младенца

Why are you being forced to have a c section?

I had one. Was determined not to skipped the section about them in all it books. Baby was breech so I had to have one. It wasn’t nearly as scary as I thought it would be. Painful yes but not scary.

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kharvell18845

AnnaМама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего

Well I wouldn’t be so upset about it if I was doing it for the baby but there is honestly no reason for me to have one. I’m just frustrated that my doctor is doing this to me now when I’ve had this cyst all my life

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iuiblessing2018

IUIMom18Мама дочки-младенца

@kharvell18845, definitely get a second option or find a new doctor. I hope everything works out for you

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mama.kay

KayyyyМама сына-младенца

What’s the reason they’re trying to make you have a c section? If you don’t mind me asking

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kharvell18845

AnnaМама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего

I have a very tiny cyst on my brain. It has been there since I was born and it doesn’t do anything, it’s basically a pocket of fluid on the outside lining of my brain

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meaniehead

...Мама троих детей

No no no

She cannot force you to do anything you don’t want to do. Especially if you’ve never had a c section.

Get second opinion ASAP

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kharvell18845

AnnaМама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего

Yea definitely doing that!

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