Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Make your own breakfast! At what age do you think a child should be making their own breakfast? I have a 10 year old and I think he is perfectly capable of making himself breakfast. It doesn't take rocket science to put some waffles into the toaster, or microwave some pancakes. My husband insists that he needs to have breakfast made for him because if we left it up to him he wouldn't eat enough and it would take him forever.
🤦🏻 ♀ i know i ain't the only one that seen that
i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that they need make up but they don't. Make up to me is just to do it for fun and sometimes when I feel insecure. Hes the only man that has made me feel beautiful without my hair straightened, without make up on and in my baggy clothes. I can burp in front of him, I can do weird things in front of him, etc. He has taught me so many things in the last (almost) 3 years and im so grateful for him. He taught me how to make pork chops and steaks, how to play some videogames, how to make white rice, how to budget, etc.
I really don't know how this is going to work he crys forever bc im only giving him 3 oz
Claudia Aguilar·
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Cause he was doing good. & just 2 nights ago he started doing that also i hate the fact that when we go to my mother In law house i hate how she says he only wants to be carried ,you always carry him thats bad bc you need to put him on his crib or swing or something not just carry him but i really dont just carry him i feed him,change him,once he goes to sleep after eating put him on his crib also sometimes he wont go to sleep & stay awake bc he is not full so i give him some more & then he goes to sleep
Monique Murehead··
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you should get one so when he does get into those stages where he wants to cluster feed or just be carried and soothe you can put a minute and you can do whatever else you need it comes in handy especially when you have stuff to do and you have another child have two other kids and I've used it for the last two I know they culsterto feed and sometimes need be carried to be soothed. Don't listen to your mother-in-law my mother-in-law was telling me my child was colicky when she was cluster feeding. Just now it will get better and I know you're tired but if you get a carrier or wrap so you can get stuff done or just lay down with the baby and let him eat.
Claudia Aguilar··
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Thank you so much hun. I really appreciate it😊 will def be searching for a wrap or carrier
Monique Murehead··
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your welcome they are a life saver!!
Claudia Aguilar·
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No ma'am i don't have none of that. I do have a bouncy chair that vibrates but sometimes he will stay & sometimes he will just cry & also got a swing but he does not like it. :(
Monique Murehead·
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Yes the boob is his paci it soothes him i know it ruff but this is just a faze and you can ge through this do you have a wrap or baby carrier that you can put him in?? That what i do when my daughters when through that.
Claudia Aguilar·
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Thank you ladies. Is cause he poops but is just like very small dint so thats why i thought he was probably constipated. But thank you very much 🙂
Monique Murehead··
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Yeah now just wait till when he really poops. Lol my daughter can go up to 3 to 4 days and then when she actually pooped it's like almost a blowout.
Claudia Aguilar··
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but also he has been very fussy like i lay him down he cries & i dont even know was wrong i try everything & i burp him he burps but then again wants to be on the boob again, he really dont like the paci :( so i'm exhausted bc he does it every night.
Monique Murehead·
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Breastfed babies at 3 weeks probably not constipation because they can go up to 3 to 4 days without pooping also cluster feeding is normal and he's eating what he needs.
lexi·
At the last appointment the pediatrician said EBF babies can't get truly constipated. But cluster feeding and fussiness is normal at 3 weeks. Maybe he has gas?
lexi··
Just found it interesting
Claudia Aguilar··
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@lexistential.crisis Thank you so much! Very helpful 😊
Allyson Almeda·
Babies cluster feed for many reasons, one being he doesn't feel good and nursing comforts him. If he wants to nurse, you will probably just have to deal with it until he's done being constipated and feeling better and making sure he stays eating will help that.