Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over tonight and run it by him...
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Maybe he's waiting to have kids to make sure the mother of his children isn't a psycho. This classifies as psycho behavior, I feel bad for him.
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If you do it, it will probably backfire on her. She'll see a side of him that she never imagined when he flips tf out and tell her he doesn't want kids with her lol!! How long have they been together?
What in the half baked hell is this? That’s horrible. Plus if the guy can do basic math he’d know she’s full of shit. If she can’t think that far thought she needs to not be procreating.
#1 YOUR friend needs Therapy ASAP what grown woman needs her girlfriend to pee on a stick to lie to her man ! karma is real don’t get involved ! A man that wants to have children with you should not be lied to wow just beyond
Deceitful
Oh god NO! As stated before, he probably has a reason for wanting to wait. They are engaged, these are things that they have talked about. She needs to respect that decision, talk to him more about it or something... do NOT grt dragged into that mess.
I saw that you said your husband is going to tell him, thank god!
Noooooo bc her crazy ass can just buy a fake one online and leave you out of her crap misery loves company
Could legit go to spencers and get one. Which is fucked up.
@mychemicalshaymance, right how the hell is that some kind of joke people are sick but forreal when petty friends see you pregnant they will try to get pregnant too instead of just being happy for you I swear three of my friends got pregnant after I told them I was.
These are the people that break up and force a child to grow up with a parent who didn’t want them. How selfish of her. Can’t be in a relationship if you wanna make decisions by yourself 😒
It must be selfish wife week... I’ve seen like 3 post about women getting pregnant or trying to get pregnant after their husbands have ALREADY expressed that they don’t want kids. Then be mad when he don’t wanna be with their crazy asses and end up as a single mom.
🤦🏽♀️ Jesus take the wheel.
A old friend of mine had someone do this for her. She went on for months and then faked a miscarriage once they got back together and he left her. At the end of the day kids aren't for everyone and everybody doesn't want kids. When I got pregnant with my daughter I didn't want kids and it took me and my husband a long time to get over that. Once I actually had my daughter everything got better but its not like that for everyone.
With knowing the two of them, I think if she would just wait, he would eventually give in and give her a child.. She’s been going on about having baby fever for awhile, and Today she just lost her mind... I just hate to be in the middle 😒😒
@oneishaivo I hate that she even pulled you in it.
@mbelton, you & me both.. even with her deceitful ways of thinking I’m hoping he don’t leave her.
Don’t even think about it! My husbands friends girlfriend did this to him, and he forced her to do an abortion!
That’s terrible on both accounts he could have just signed away his rights
Uhm. Yeah good thing your husband is telling him. Thats fucked. I wouldnt care if it was my friend since we were in diapers. Id be taking a screenshot and sending that shit straight to her man without even feeling bad.
Oh hell naw. Don't do it AND tell him about this fucked up nonsense. He doesn't deserve to be with someone who is willing to completely disregard his feelings. She's supposed to be his fiancee and she wants to do some dumb shit. If she's not willing to respect him, he deserves to know. Respect is big in a relationship.
@mychemicalshaymance, well after he confronts her I may not have to drop her, she’ll drop me 🤷🏽♀️ but it is what it is, nothing good comes from wrong doing..
@oneishaivo, sorry you have to deal with this 😑
@mychemicalshaymance, yeah I definitely get all of that. This is a complete mess! For me, I would tell the “friend” the fuck off. Bc I’m close with my husband, I would tell him. But I definitely would prefer to not be in it. Bc its a mess....
@lizology27_bb it's a whole mess. I'm assuming the husband is the fiance's friend considering he's the one telling him. So it's like she pulled his friends and her friend into her selfishness.
@mychemicalshaymance, again an ENTIRE MESS.... although I’m glad to not be involved... I can’t help but wanting to be a fly on the wall. I hope OP comes back and update us
@momtwo4, I missed it! I gotta read through these lol
@anissacampos88, 🤯🤯🤯🤯 wtf all I had to do was read the post!
No . terrible idea. Very childish I say . they need to have a talk since she obviously wants kids sooner then later and he dosent.
Is she gonna fake a miscarriage when she doesn't get pregnant and her period comes? Honestly if you do it you are just as disgusting of a human as she is. That poor man. He probably has a plan for his life and she's trying to force something on him he obviously doesn't want at this time in his life.
@mamagunn.no.1, apparently everyone does it, so it’s okay!
@littleonemorning oh yeah of course! If everyone is doing a fucked up thing it must be all good!
Is this even a legit question? Why would you even have to think this over? If anything you should tell him so he can run!!
He needs to run real fast like this -----------> 🏃💨
& I honestly am thinking the same.. idk what’s getting into her, she’s doing everything she can to get pregnant.. and I told her eventually he’s not gonna want do anything with her.
@oneishaivo, honestly, I would go to him. Tell him what she is saying and leave it up to him what happens.
Wow, she’s pretty fucking pathetic for even thinking that way. Sorry but it’s the truth. Someone needs to warn that man before he is stuck with her crazy ass.
I’d definitely stay out of it. That’s psycho behavior 🙈 When and if he found out, you’re caught in the middle and all trust will be gone. Yikes. I feel the need to tell him and I don’t even know any of you 😅🤦🏻♀️
I don’t think I would keep a friend like this.
@oneishaivo why are you even stopping to question it . You should've straight told her no period
@phoebesmommy, noooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!! Not at all!!!!!! It was random! Idk what’s going on with her, she just keep say she has baby fever...
@oneishaivo, well if she’s not normally like this I’d be super blunt with her.
LMAOOOOOO.
No. You don’t help this girl out. If anything, you tell that man her plan so he has the chance to leave her crazy ass. Friend or not, that woman has serious problems and needs to get help. She definitely doesn’t care about this guy nor respect him and his decisions. I don’t know what this man is like, but he deserves to know what kind of woman he’s with. No one deserves that level of crazy.
Do not do this. It’s completely messed up for her to try and trap this man into having a child that he doesn’t want right now. She has absolutely no respect for his stance, so she shouldn’t even be engaged to him to be honest. If you get yourself tangled up in this, you’re not being a friend, you’re being an enabler and co-conspirator in the manipulation.
Maybe he's waiting to have kids to make sure the mother of his children isn't a psycho. This classifies as psycho behavior, I feel bad for him.
So what if she doesn’t get pregnant... she gonna lie when it’s 5 months later she there’s still no real baby?
I honestly don’t know what her plan is.. she’s never asked me to do something like this, so it caught me of guard! I told my husband & he’s even surprised. I think I may ignore her for a few days then after tell her I no.
Also, to add, you peeing on a stick means she also might not get pregnant right away, he might be asking hella questions when doctors appointments come around and she’s either not pregnant or just barely.
Uh fuck no. Imagine him wanting the baby and her wanting to wait - and he does something like messing with her BC or making her think he wore a condom. Fucked up. She can wait for him to be ready too.
That's really fucking cruel! No one should be manipulated into having kids. If I was him and found out she had done that, I'd be kicking her ass to the curb. It's so sneaky and deceptive.
Girl don’t do it because that’s gonna come back around on u
That’s manipulating him. Absolutely not a good idea. If he found out that would be very bad. He doesn’t want kids for a reason right now. Don’t force it.
Absolutely not!!! That is so wrong in so many ways. Trapping a man is effed up and just wrong. Maybe he doesn't want kids with her because she clearly is a messed up person to even come up with this idea🤷♀️
Horrible idea. One, that’s entrapment. Two, it’s not your business to get involved - that is between them and them alone. She needs to really chill and wait. Bottom line.
@ek_, @bridgett2731, @nahizabri, I told her I’d think on it.. the whole idea makes me nervous
Yeahhh just dont do it, she has to respect his decision.
She’s straight trying to trap him. She should respect his decision. You should not do it, or you’re just as low as her. Smh 🤦🏻♀️
If he wants to wait it might be for a certain reason, don’t be a part of this
No that’s dumb to trick someone into getting her pregnant
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