Ive been thinking about people coming to see baby and I after I give birth and I kinda don’t want to be having people around until about a month later. Is that an ugly move of me? I just don’t want a lot of people around baby & I’ll be in pain anyway. I just think close family & friends will be allowed. I just feel like I want to embrace the moment of being a new mommy & just love my baby in privacy.
Any suggestions?
It’s entirely up to you! I wanted people around because I was lonely. You’ll figure it out!
You're totally right. All mom's want to do when they have their precious bundle of joy is be alone. It's not an ugly move, babies are only babies for a while ! Enjoy it, but don't be afraid to ask for help
Tbh I agree with you I don’t want so many people around me and my baby right away !
What’s your take on vaccinations? Some people think they do more harm to the baby than good .. personally I don’t know , but I would love some insight.


Enjoying some fun in the sun ☀️
Don’t come for me about him not wearing a life jacket. I don’t want to hear it. He was fine 🙄
I Have a question mommies I’m a First Time Mom and everyone keeps saying when my baby get here there gonna take my baby but I don’t trust people like that and I promise I’m not trying to be mean but I don’t want anyone to have a my baby and I know people are going to ask so my question is How do you say no without being mean ?🤔 I don’t even plan on letting my child spend the night with people when he gets older it’s just so much happen to me as a kid and I don’t want that for my baby
So I want more mommies I can talk to, about our babies or just our lives. People I can talk to who I'm not lonely all day😊 message me or comment
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
I didn't let anyone visit me at the hospital. It's your choice mama. Do not let anyone pressure you. They can visit baby once you're settled back in your house.