My husband and I were discussing trying for baby #2 this summer. Now, my hopes is that since I’m now familiar with how life is with a baby (birth, recovery, lack of sleep, anxiety and fear of doing things wrong, breastfeeding pain, mild baby blues, etc.), that perhaps things wont be as shocking or as hard or scary and I might just actually enjoy my 2nd newborn! Am I being too hopeful ? I’m sure the fatigue or hormonal effects will still be there but I’m thinking I won’t be as anxious etc. No clue. What’s it like with a second?
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Baby number one was extremely difficult for us. It was a huge adjustment. Baby number two has been much easier for us because we already knew what to expect. I didn’t enjoy baby number one because I was too overwhelmed but I’ve really enjoyed baby number two. 😊
Aww this is so good to know. A few of my friends have said the same. I feel so guilty with the thought of enjoying newborn #2 but almost regretting #1 during that moment. He’s my whole world now though.
@carusod91, I hear ya! Don’t feel bad. It seems to be very common. How you felt in the past is entirely out of your control. 😊
My thoughts exactly!! I was so anxious about giving birth with the first one, I didn't even know I was having contractions when I had them... I feel like I'll be able to enjoy my next pregnancy, birth, and newborn phase much more. 🤞